(Talking phase) He's always been sweet and respectful but one day goes by without reading his messages and the following day he calls me "stuck-up"?

[Anonymous]

Is this normal guy behavior?

[friendzoned4life]

This is behavior of a guy that is done with Girls playing games so yeah if you skip a Day you're out. We are done wasting our time on Girls that don't want us.

[friendzoned4life]

Also why if you like him do this we men have feelings too he probably is a good guy and you Just lost him

[Asker]

Interesting. I had a feeling he was a player and was talking to more than one.

[friendzoned4life]

That is another problem you should've trusted him blindly cause he gave u no reason not too

[friendzoned4life]

My window for Girls to proof if they are worth my time is 24 hours from the first time we talk no matter if this is IRL or by text.

If they leave me on read once they are out.

This is not how I did it before.

I was always making sure the girl I wanted knew that asap but a lot effort in them even when they played the games. Well that earned me my username.

This 24 hour and zero tolerance window is to protect myself from another unneccesary heartbreak

[Asker]

It doesn’t matter anymore. I already told him how I felt about his comment and I told him goodbye. It’s the end already.

[friendzoned4life]

Well next time don't play games

[spartan55]

He is calling out your game playing...

[Asker]

I was having family problems and was busy with my work load.

[spartan55]

Did you tell him that?

[Asker]

I would've if he wouldn't have resorted to insults. It speaks volumes of him if that's how he's going to react after only one day of not replying to him.

[spartan55]

And I'm sure you would be just as understanding had the situation been reversed?

[Asker]

Of course

[spartan55]

I don't know if I buy that.

[Asker]

I was busy and I did believe he was a player (still do)... With that being said, if I’m going through it I definitely won’t be putting him on my list of priorities. I cut him off yesterday anyways. He sent me a cheesy love quote and I told him I didn’t appreciate his insult after only one day of not reading his messages. I dint ask him for an apology and just told him goodbye,

[spartan55]

Why do you believe he is a player?

[Asker]

Everyone around me is telling me he was way too flirty/sweet way too soon. Almost as if he's talking to several at the same time.

[spartan55]

So in other words, your creating it all in your head. So if he is sweet too soon that means he is a player and is talking to other girls? That doesn't even make sense.

[Asker]

It means he’s a hoe and is only testing the waters. You know that and I know that.

[spartan55]

Uh, no... you haven't given anything of substance to support your claim. And how does he know you aren't talking to several other guys. Give me a break with that player crap.

[Asker]

You're right. I probably let my insecurities get the best of me but trust me on this one... I'm never wrong when I have a feeling like this about certain people. He's talking to several and that's fine because he's single but I have no intention of being an option.

[spartan55]

And you know that how? Like you aren't doing the same thing?

[Asker]

I’m not

[spartan55]

He doesn't know that.

[mch90]

Sounds like a loser

[friendzoned4life]

I also have a 24 hour no talking limit and a 9 hour so Just a bit more than a work Day no reply limit.

I do these because of bitches that keep playing games acting like they want me one day , next day saying nothing and then day after and then go act like they want me and when I come to the conclusion she was teasing me and ask her out it is always no.

We don't have time for that Bullshit

Want a good dude, well better give him effort and attention we get the opposite amount of attention a puppy gets

[Raaddy]

@friendzoned4life probably the reason your friend zoned for life. 🤣🤣

[friendzoned4life]

No this is what I did to stop the friendzone. Not wasting my time anymore