Why does ny friends with benefits want me to get my vagina to undergo surgery?

[Anonymous]

He says he needs my lips trimmed becuase the hang slighty

[anniisa97]

Never, ever change your body for a guy. Do it if you want to do it, but never let anyone else's opinions be the reason for cosmetic surgery.

I think you should find another friends with benefits as this guys clearly an a-hole, and way too involved in your appearance when you're not even together. But even if you were, he has no right to suggest any sort of surgery.

[lycanthrope3]

what she said

[Asker]

That's what I dont understand he tells me off and getting a little personal considering we aren't a couple

[anniisa97]

Yeah please cut contact. He sounds very controlling and that can be an early indicator of an abusive person.

[Bee-Hatch]

Well based on your question, if he's happy to undergo surgical mutilation of his ball bag and penis. Then he's got every right to ask you to get mutilated.


Or you could ask him to stop watching so much porn. It gives an unreasonable understanding of how natural women look.

[WolfKvlt]

Some people like their sandwiches with extra pastrami, and some people don't. Either way, as long as it's being bit into, the enjoyment is there.
Hope this helps!

[Honesttguy]

His selfish, narcissistic personality. So he just dont care for you cus he will leave you eventually anyway.

[Asker]

he's been asking me to move in with him

[Honesttguy]

And how do you feel about moving in with him?

[Asker]

I'm not sure he's had a big body count he's been asking me for the last year and a bit

[Honesttguy]

Warning signs are already here girl, if you choose to ignore them and keep going down that rabbit hole you might not be able to get out from there later on and that will be the end for you.
at least have some backup plan, financialy so you can leave at any moment without being trapped financially. But do think about it very carefully, it doesn't look that good to me to keep going any further. Stay safe

[Asker]

Yes you could be right maybe I should just get someone else would save the hassle and stress

[Honesttguy]

That sounds good. You have to look out for yourself. Thats why its friends with benefits, to benefit you, not to become stress and headache. Go for it.

[kidvid80]

cut it off - i mean the friends with benefits situations he's ridiculous. and this sounds like the start of something very negative. there are so many people out there who won't put you down and love you for who you are. the world just gets more intolerable everyday. move on baby

[EmmaMary]

I do sincerely hope you've already shown him the door.

[_bunny_]

No that's normal he's being stupid don't listen to a guy like that plus he doesn't have a vagina what does he know NOTHING he knows NOTHING about vaginas

[Sam_The_Savage]

Bunny relaxed 😘

[Starrisunset]

If this is a real question you definitely need to find a different friends with benefits. If he's suggesting you undergo surgery because it's more appealing to him then he doesn't deserve you or sex from anyone at that point.

[TadCurious]

He's ignorant about normal female genital anatomy and extremely thoughtless to say that.

[Asker]

Its not like bes going to end up with me? Or maybe he did see me as more if he's saying all that.

[ChrisMaster69]

As the is a day later to your question?

how did he take being told to fuck off and never contact you again, ever?

[abc3643]

He needs to go.
NOW.

[Asker]

Do you think so?

[abc3643]

You need to watch the "Law & Order: Criminal Intent" Season 1 episode titled "The Good Doctor".
Your F. W. B. sounds like that "good doctor" ...

You can watch this episode for free with a free Peacock account.

[abc3643]

Yes. Now.

Any guy should be fine with you just the way you are.
If he's going to complain, then "put a ring on it"... THEN he can complain... and still should be shot down.

This guy is too egocentric and selfish. He might be good in bed, but he's worthless otherwise. You deserve better.

[abc3643]

You need to watch that episode. Once you do, you will fully understand why he needs to go.

[Asker]

Is it scary to watch

[abc3643]

I don't think so. The various Law & Order series aren't meant to be generally scary although there are some characters who are very disturbing and bordering on scary.

To me, the scariest character was perhaps 10-year old Jenny Brant on the episode "Killerz" of "Law & Order". She was going to grow up and become a serial killer. She already had killed a cat and a little boy for fun. You could see she was fucked in the head which is why the ending of that episode is so disconcerting...
===
Dr. Skoda: Jenny's been emotionally abused, maybe physically. She lashes out when her anger reaches the boiling point.
Abbie Carmichael: So we lock this girl up?
Dr. Skoda: Get used to it. There are more and more girls committing violent crimes. I don't see anything from Jenny except a future of escalating antisocial behavior.
Jack McCoy: What makes you say that?
Dr. Skoda: Emotional abuse, the snuffed cat, blacked out photographs, her lack of response when I went after her.
Jack McCoy: Fantasies about hurting little boys.
Dr. Skoda: Previews of coming attractions. She's graduated to murder. She's not going to stop.
Abbie Carmichael: You sound pretty sure.
Dr. Skoda: The kid's a done deal. She's a textbook serial killer. You just got her early.

[KatherineJ]

It sounds like you need a new guy.

[Asker]

It's not like he's the one marrying me or anything what he got to worry about

[BeachLuvR97]

As long as you would never ask a guy to get circumcised or as long as you would never make fun of a guy for not being circumcised, then you should keep your folds as they are and kick him out of your life.

[Quidthonian]

This is since he prefers a different look. Such surgery should be only your decision. It would be similar if a woman asked a man to get circumcised for her.

[Den1971]

Tell that piece of shit to get gone an search for the vagina he wants. Your pussy is perfect don't let that asshole tell you different. That real shit

[chriscdi]

Bruh dont change your appearance cause someone told you too

[worldscolide]

Cause he is incredibly stupid and thinks girls should look like what they see in porn...

[Anonymous]

I would tell him to undergo sex reassignment surgery and do whatever he wants with his labia.

[Asker]

He asked me to live with him but I wasn't sure he seems like the type who would leave lol

[Opinion Owner]

I'd be worried if he's concerned about your labia, what else will he want to change or control.

[Nazgol]

LMFAO tell him to shove it up his @ss lol and get lost

[kina003]

What's your opinion about it though? Cause you are the one choosing what you want

[Jamie05rhs]

Because he doesn't fucking appreciate a good thing when he has one!!

[J9inva]

Oh I just love lips that hang down. Tell him to get surgery on his penis. Please don’t have surgery for him.

[EnglishEuropean]

You're having a laugh.

Did he offer to pay for the procedure?

[lycanthrope3]

Tell him to fuck off, he does not deserve you, he is no friend

[lycanthrope3]

hope you told him since he does not like your kitty's he does not get to pet her

[Azura_88]

Tell him to get plastic surgery.

[Agape93]

Because he’s a cunt

[KatherineJ]

@Agape93 I hate that word but in this case it’s appropriate.

[EmmaMary]

@Agape93 Certainly not a word I would ever use myself, but I do understand your feelings.

[Agape93]

I hate it too but sometimes it’s just the right word to use in my eyes

[ChrisMaster69]

@Agape93 well said.

I’m pleased you used the C word, very apt in this instance.

[fish_in_a_barrel]

lol. fuck him