Should I get a gender reassignment surgery?

[Anonymous]

I can't provide financially and i dont have a super high paying job.

I have all types of emotions and feelings.

I care about my appearance.

I hate beer and love cocktails.

I live alone and am doing my home chores.

Not a fan of frequenting gyms very often and bodybuilding.

I like to listen to Zara Larsson, Fifth Harmony, Dua Lipa, Zedd, Kygo... but also rap (Kevin Gates, Wiz Khalifa, Travis Scott).

I can turn into a transwoman and date women as such. I dont fulfill the expectations of men and i won't Anytime soon. These things are final.

For sure

nah

decide for yourself

[NewsReader]

You know the final decision is up to you. Do I recommend going through with it? No. Most people regret it later. And I don't see how the reasons you listed are good enough to make such a huge change to your body.

[anylolone]

If you are asking here I'd suggest you spend more time thinking about it...
It's not exactly a sign of great maturity and self-awareness...

Go do therapy for a while more and try again.

[EmmaMary]

Only you can make the ultimate and very final decision... Good Luck.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[Asker]

GAG did this, not me

[Sabretooth]

No. It'll only destroy you. Embrace what makes you different. People fetishize trans girls... Instead of seeing it as a negative... See it as an offramp. Not that I'm advocating that you start doing porn or hook up with those who just seek them out for an experience. Though, all men will want that experience at some point... It's normal to be curious in such things when you're with a trans girl... Though, keep in mind that that'll put men in a ver vulnerable spot

[Asker]

Alright, fair enough. Won't get a gender reassignment surgery. I'm too old for that now anyway.

[Sabretooth]

that's a smart decision. I advised one not to do it... hasn't gone well... well, as well as I expected... I've got honed analytical skills. I also suggest that you work on forgoing tucking. being versatile is also good as it can help you form a good balance where the pursuit of SRS will destroy you--allowing yourself to enjoy your dick will help all parts of you to be able to merge together. this also allows for a level of intimacy a cis girl won't get... not to say that you're better but a cis girl can't project that same area of vulnerability.

[Asker]

I see. Well, i suppose that these silly expectations were invented by weird guys. Girls appear to not care as much.
But getting a gender reassignment surgery is a very risky one way gamble with only one shot. That's what keeps me from getting it 😁 not blaming those, who undergo it.

[Sabretooth]

that's why I believe that this fetish for trans girls is necessary for growth. sadly, too many trans girls attack such men. the attracted to trans girls and the natural curiosities of wanting to explore their dicks put men in a very scary spot where they can be attacked from all sides. I've felt the vile from trans women about my views... needless to say that I'm glad I only met them on the internet... I wouldn't trust them again if I were in a relationship with em.

[Sabretooth]

Also, post op trans women will hate you. There's a lot of malic from post ops the non or pre ops... Seen that, myself...

[Asker]

Maybe you've seen the worst of them, not the average type. But you make some good points.

[Sabretooth]

Thanks. Though, which comment were you referring to?

[Asker]

about the curiosity part of trans-girls part. Sexuality isn't as simple as it first seems to be. I am attracted to girls and some "former guys" managed to deceive as a girl.

[Sabretooth]

I'm not the only one who's had it directed at him. one man had a pretty good take on it in this piece: transamorousnetwork.com/.../ . I agree that it isn't that simple. I used to think that it would make a man to gay or bi to be with a trans girl.. that doesn't hold true when you consider trans men.

[Asker]

Fair enough. Pretty sure trans come with an array of personalities much like men and women. E. G. we like to think women are the crazy one's but when you consider guys raging on an online multiplayer video game at 1AM, you'll see men are the crazy ones too. Point is A-holes come in all shapes.

[Sabretooth]

from my experience, open-minded trans girls are the minority.

[Sabretooth]

but true.

[Sabretooth]

thinking about those who were raped as children. what I've told you is even more important to them--it'd be therapeutic... help them heal and get back their pride, courage and self-respect.

[Sabretooth]

you are one of the more mature, level-headed and sane than the majority than the majority men meet.

[Asker]

Cheers for the compliment. I think the same of you.

[Sabretooth]

I rarely give compliments. Well, it took sex games to open my eyes and see things concerning trans girls differently, but thanks. I used to be transphobic... Not proud of it. My own experience showed me that the "tranny fetish" is necessary for growth... Same for 2 others I know. I had a long debate with one such man. Eventually, I sent him the sex games that forced me to change my mind "WVM". I think trans girls should play it as well to understand the men who are attracted to them.

[Sabretooth]

And sorry for that typo... Years of restless nights.

[Asker]

No problem mate. I have some sleep issues as well.

[Sabretooth]

Over 14 years...

[Sabretooth]

speaking of sex games--trans girls steal the show in harem games--a lot of character development, there... so long as you don't keep a fixed role... kinda boring, too--if they don't have her using her dick at some point... I'm out.

[Asker]

I think i'll stick to trans porn for the time being. I don't think I am yet willing to exercise having sex with trans girls 🤔 not a fan of dicks other than my own.

[Sabretooth]

I'm confused... figured you were one.

[Asker]

Was considering it.

[Sabretooth]

Well, like you --i've never experienced dick. I just understand that they open the mind to things you'd normally never think about

[Wade12345]

No, idiot. If nobody likes you now they won't like you when you disfigure your body.

[Asker]

For real. Haters be hating.

[DARKCLOUD1945X]

Once done connot be undone. If you feel troubled now what do you do if you feel like you made a mistake in changing your stuck with it THINK LONG AND VERY VERY HARD ABOUT IT!

[Anonymous]

Nope. That won't solve anything in your life. It will only create more problems.

[KatherineJ]

Don’t know, don’t care.

[roy_ricky09]

Take control of yourself.