Why do so many guys stand by never hitting a woman?

Question

it annoys me when they say that

USMC-Crossroads · Accepted Answer

Well, A) It's not fair. Our bone structure, muscle protein bonding, and our testosterone gives us the ability to rage in an instant, along with instant access to Fast_twitch muscle response. Yes, women CAN develop these things, but it takes years of training, and it just doesn't happen naturally.
And B) Men, like me, who don't hurt women, are proud of it because it can take a lot of self-control to resist that urge. A million years of evolving has us rely on one response for things we don't like.
Also, C) Men really don't understand why women stay with those asshole guys. And staying that they aren't one of them, is our way of telling you that you will always be safe with us... yes, it is a way we try to make ourselves more appealing, but, it should be good to know, right?

Personally, I have never hit a girl. Never raised my hand to a girl. I have never even raised my voice to a girl. I have felt to urge to lash out, don't get me wrong, but even though the Marines made me violent, they also made me disciplined. The way I always saw it, is if a women pisses me off to that degree, then I shouldn't be with her... and I won't be after that point.

You wanted an honest answer, so don't go all 'woke-feminist-women's-lib on me. I love and cherish women, and think that my job it to protect them, and make their lives better. I have no desire t control any girl I've been with, or even just been friends with, but I have always put their happiness ahead of my own. I feel that WAY too many women don't appreciate that fact. And even if they don't like me believing that, at least know that it comes from a place of love, admiration, and affection.

I only ever wanted a woman that I can make happy every minute of the day, and one that will appreciate it. I haven't found one yet, but that is the ONLY way I know how to treat a woman... so that's how I treat every woman in my life.

Of course, some guys say it because they're lying pieces of shit who should be castrated and locked away in the basement of a prison. But that's not all of us, so please, if you get to find a good one (I recommend Marines), please give it a chance to be treated this way.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

Because they're white knights or still think it's the 1950s. Women actually have a term for this; Benevolent Sexism. It's unintentionally treating women like babies and weaklings, and thinking someone like Miesha Tate couldn't beat the sh*t out of them, just because they're female and the cuck in question is a male.

It annoys me, too. I've always treated women like equals (okay, not "always," I was kind of a pussy-pedestaler in my early 20's, but I've been out of that phase for a while now). The good or bad; one thing I will always tell you is, I treat women, as a whole, exactly like I do men, and will call out their positives, and especially negatives, when necessary. I also haven't hidden the fact that I'm a misanthrope and think humanity sucks in general. Men are usually just less annoying throughout life, while women rarely get held accountable for anything in society.

But like I said in the last question about this, I have ZERO reservations about close-fist punching anyone over the age of 14 who seriously tries to take a swing at me. I don't believe in excessive force, but I will try to give back at least one-third more the force they tried to hit me with. I am by no means a bad-ass or anything, but I do box and know the basics of throwing a punch, dodging, protecting my head and body, etc. The rule should apply to everyone: KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF AND THERE WON'T BE ANY PROBLEMS.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Because there are more ways to handle things.

it’s also not never, it’s like 99% of the time.

example, standing in a pub and some girl has an argument with you, she’s 5’4 and thin.

she punches me, it is fucking ridiculous to punch them back.

If I did that in Newcastle, at least one guy would want to kick shit out of me.

I would sooner choose a more suitable response, such as putting her over my knee and spanking her ass, it throughly humiliates her, gives rest of the pub a laugh and she is put in her place.

At 5’11 and out massing her in kgs, my return punch could in theory crack her eye socket, break her nose cheek bone etc.

hers is basically going to hit my body, like ouch.

a lot of guys do not hit other guys when they out mass them or it’s obvious they will really hurt the other person.

just because you can does not mean you should.

Den1971 · Answer

What's the purpose of hitting a woman there's no reason to if you're a man and you're in a relationship and you can't control your anger then you have the problem not her so don't take it out on her that's your issue and if you do you're a weak ass pussy ass bitch real talk

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

You are going to hate me then. I wouldn't lay a finger in anger on a woman!

That doesn't mean I'm going to just stand there and let her hit me though. There are plenty of ways to restrain without the need for hitting.

kevyhanma · Answer

Well tbh gender doesn’t matter I don’t fight weaklings period because I truly believe on fighting terms your inferior and not a threat I definitely could kill a woman if I fought her seriously your necks and wrist are very small could easily snap them

spartan55 · Answer

It annoys you? Then how about you go to prison for me serve my sentence? Your statement is ignorant on many levels.

Browneye57 · Answer

If you strike a woman you are likely to end up in prison, where you can be Bubba's girlfriend for the duration.  Tell us why you think men should be hitting women. We're dying to know.

exitseven · Answer

Because it is something I have always believed. Maybe because my father believed it too. I just think that you shouldn't hit anyone but especially not women.

InfobotLives · Answer

Well, largely because many of us have never hit a woman and never plan to unless we're being violently attacked by one.

SupremeWarlord · Answer

Do you want them to hit you?

LOL I think I know where you're coming from, probably you feel that they are looking down on you for your strength, do not read the situation like that, some do not say that maliciously.

Hawner · Answer

Why are you annoyed that we don't hit women? I would think that is a good thing. 🤔

boggboss · Answer

Because they don't see it as a plausible option and others don't enjoy it in the room

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

I’m not going to hit a women if she hits me unless I’m walking away and she’s still right behind me hitting me i would push her down though I wouldn’t deck her in the face

Anonymous · Answer

Because women are physically weak and it is not right, through I must admit some have such a big mouth that really deserve a slap or two.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

Hey if you enjoy being hit that's a different issue. You need to sign a form saying it's okay though.

loveslongnails · Answer

Ask your grandpa. He's from another time and place.

Massageman · Answer

Because there are still some gentlemen in the world - - - - along with those afraid of a lawsuit.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Way I was raised I wouldn't hit a woman. But I wouldn't let woman hit me either id hold her arm's

Anonymous · Answer

Men are physically way stronger than women. It would be like hitting a child.

najekim · Answer

Because I would do more damage to her then she could to me.

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

It's just not an acceptable thing to do as girls are by default delicate.. they are ones to be loved and not hit.

TinTan88 · Answer

Maybe get into martial arts or wrestling. That would be fun for you.

Anonymous · Answer

It's an assault for one and the another some dudes don't know how...

Blackcupcake · Answer

What? You want them to hit women?

NathanDavis · Answer

because I am not a troglodyte

Brownbored · Answer

You wana get hit? Wtf

Anonymous · Answer

No one wants to go to jail.

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

I'm not sure why you ask this question.

Still-alive · Answer

If she's attacking me yeah im hitting her back

anylolone · Answer

Why does it annoy you?

Anonymous · Answer

Feminists raise their sons to be simps.

Wise4myage · Answer

WTF?

mattissebfan5 · Answer

Because it's assault

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