Do guys have a sense of empathy?

[Nazgol]

I know that most probably do but I'm talking about those cold hearted, cruel ones who ghost girls & be mean and break hearts. Why are they like that and why dont they feel empathy? Will they ever or do secretly? Or are they just a lost hope

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+1 y

And please dont start with the girls can be too. That is not the answer to the question

[Tunasub]

Well you know some girls find the wrong guy (s) at different stages as they grow (got ya😜).


Most guys only care about getting you in bed and will do and say just about anything to expose the soft spot that everyone has and exploit it.

Now you're exposed and the quest is over for him now he's captain asshole and you never knew he was a shitty Super Zero that rips out the hearts of unsuspecting girls.

There is a weakness. Before he turns into captain Asshole and is hiding behind the faccad of niceness. Don't show him how much you like him. No touchy feely and cause he's gonna be jerkin' the gerkin for quite a while before you decide he's worthy. The real ones will stay because the like is genuine. The fake ones will be gone faster than his hard-on when you say no..

That's all I got..

[Starman5]

Men also have empathy. For example, sex is a need. When a woman wants sex, the man has sex with her to make her happy, even if she doesn't want sex at the time. this is empathy. You sent me a message and I replied to you. please view messages and reply me

[kyleelyn199723]

Of course they have empathy, morals probably not. If they had morals, they wouldn’t have sex with a girl they didn’t have feelings for

[RubyonRails]

10% seem to have a sense of empathy. Men are born with much more emotional control and lack of emotions for survival it seems.

[roy_ricky09]

Everyone changes given the circumstances.
If someone had a past with betrayals, and if that person learned not to trust anyone agains, he'd turn cold and will never even try to trust anyone.
Humans shut themselves when they get hurt and don't want it to happen again which makes them kinda not care about emotion or empathy.
Our experiences prevent us from being in the same situation before.

[roy_ricky09]

Well your question was pointed towards guys. So yea anyone has the capability given the right circumstances

[Daviddd5412]

I know what you mean. There are a number of mean guys that seem to have no empathy at all. I really do think the meanest people I've ever met have been men. But I also think the nicest people I've ever met have been men too.

[Lionman95]

I think some do, some don´t. Some guys have a problem to understand what it does with a woman when she´s ghosted.

[ohshee]

I cannot speak for others before myself I can see things happening in the smallest details that I feel them at the highest levels. I do

[TommyMountainFigure]

I feel empathy for people who warrant it. Some people just do not deserve it.

My answer is unisex by the way.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then you're talking about those cold hearted, cruel ones who ghost girls & be mean and break hearts not guys because they can be girls too

[Nazgol]

What? You dont make sense🤨

[Aiko_E_Lara]

It doesn't take a genius

[Nazgol]

Ok. seems like you're just in love with your own gender

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then you're just jumping to your own conclusions when anyone can say the same thing about you just to backfire your own logic

[SamFromFL]

They have empathy, just not for people in relationships. Many are a lost hope. Why do women think they will change?

[007kingifrit]

are you dating in an appropriate range or are you trying to date a 6 ft tall perfect rich guy who has so many options you don't matter?

[Wiredone]

Honestly you answered your own question. It's because they are cold hearted and cruel.

[krin_m]

I hope so! I always try to put myself in other person's shoes to understand where they are coming from. I don't always succeed but I try!

[Hanrej]

You can't base a relationship on empathy alone, or why don't you find a homless guy to take care of?

[TallAnon]

Yes, otherwise the world would look very differently. We do average less empathy than women.

[NYCQuestions1976]

Technology erodes empathy.

[Nazgol]

How so?

[NYCQuestions1976]

Constant screen time makes people less aware of other people's feelings.

[Nazgol]

True but I don't think that can be applied to everyone

[NYCQuestions1976]

True. Some people are just born with Narcissistic Disorder.

[AlexanderAnttila]

"EmPAtY"? What is that a new beer?

[innerman]

Its some Swedish sandwich

[KrakenAttackin]

We have empathy when it is deserved.

[splashmustache]

I'm a empathetic person.

[dolemite89]

girls can be just as cold hearted too

[Andres77]

Seared conscience...

[EaterPeter]

Yes.