When should I give him a bj? I practically love him?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy he is polite and sweet and works at my job too. He’s been there for 2 weeks and we have had a conversation twice. Do I have to jump his bones now and give him a bj as soon as possible? Can I wait a month or 2 before trying to get him can I afford to? Will he think I don’t like him? It’s been about 2 weeks since he started working at my job. Should week 3-4 I make him mine?

I mean I’m going to ask him to hang out and give him one during the day. then he’ll love me.

[anylolone]

You can't make anyone yours. Just do what you want stop shooting yourself in the foot and you definitely want more than a blowjob.

[Asker]

I do want more than a blowjob. I thought giving him a blowjob would obviously let him know that. What can I do that’s not a blow job to definitely have more with him. I’m going to ask him to hang out at a place he wants to try when I see him at work next (a week until we work together again) I think he asked me out offhandedly because he said I want to try that place. And I was like I can go with you. And he was like after work some point. And I was like ok. But we are too tired so I’m going to ask meeting on a day we aren’t working.

[anylolone]

You can't play with people like they are dolls, they have free will, get used to it.
Just relax and have fun, if he walks because you are being a creep, you gonna regret not sitting on his face at least once.

Here's a study for you to read.
journals.sagepub.com/.../1474704921998333#

[SalvatoreCordileone]

Sucking dick makes love. What a country. I gotta become a USA citizen

[Asker]

Please don’t.

[SalvatoreCordileone]

Too late already started studying for my citizen test.

[Asker]

Be a man and handle your own country. Make it better. Don’t cry to American men. You can do it.

[kyleelyn199723]

How about get to know him first? Being an easy catch won’t make him yours. You will be known as the work whore

[888theGreat]

Guys will line up

[kyleelyn199723]

Absolutely. What man doesn’t like his dick sucked during work? That man will point those other men in the right direction of who to get that from

[888theGreat]

If she swallows and no condoms , they get the bonus

[noohair]

I have seen disasters at work when people mix their personal life with work. There are 3.5 billion men in the world. The guys at work are off limits.

[888theGreat]

BJ just for liking him? What would he get if you really loved him?

[Asker]

I might love him. I mean what else should he get a bj for? What are you even saying.

[888theGreat]

I can only imagine what he gets if you loved him,

[Wise4myage]

Do it when you feel like it and the idea turns you on.

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

Before you meet him.
You mean you spoke to a guy BEFORE you gave him a blow job?
Gee whiz

[Anonymous]

The way you use your lips will let him know how much you want the relationship to grow

[Asker]

This is what I was thinking but others think it’s too soon. What do you think? I think he seemed a little pissed that I didn’t pay more attention to him and he couldn’t tell I liked him

[Anonymous]

is this some kind of stupid fucking troll question?

[Asker]

No timing is everything right

[Opinion Owner]

are you really a woman or some gay guy or tranny pretending to be a woman

[Asker]

What’s your problem. I’m just a girl.

[Opinion Owner]

the fact that this question has troll written all over it

[iBeowulf]

Guys, commitment is a trap.

[Asker]

I will get him right where I want him forever. Hahaha. I can’t wait.

[iBeowulf]

Marriage, cohabitation, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows and tinder is a thing. Your ancient manipulation tactics would only work on the weakest and dumbest of men.

[Asker]

It’s not for everyone I mean I couldn’t see my self with anyone at all. I feel like I can with him.

[Asker]

Maybe you haven’t found your person you want to see all the time. Plenty of mediocre people out there.

[iBeowulf]

Relationships aren't worth the financial and legal risks since women file for divorce in 80-90% of cases. Good luck with throating cock in exchange for a relationship with a beta.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would wait to you get to know him more

[Asker]

I can just tell that he likes me and doesn’t know if I’m interested. I thought it would be a good way to say I’m interested. Any advice on getting to know him? I’d like to

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Asker Ask him if he would like to go have Coffee or Tea or whatever you two would like to drink I would not recommend Alcohol cause that make a bad impression ( No Offense )

[Asker]

He said he wanted to try this bar and I said yeah we should both go to the bar that’s all I came up with