“Riding round town with my niggas. Ridin' 'round town with my niggas We gon' make a movie, smoke this doobie Yeah, let's chill a while Every single night I'm lookin' for a chick to pickup”
Because they start missing the ex girlfriend and the ex girlfriend is a familiar face when the guy still remains single. They remember the good times but they can’t deal with the present troubled situation so they get kind of confused. Some go back for sex only but not all of them. Some still actually care
Dear Alyssa -- Once a male forms a bond, it's hard for him to break away. However, I've learnt to let sleeping dogs lie. I would dearly love to reconnect with some of my old girlfriends, but apart from anything else, there are half a continent away. I've lived in many places in my life, I think it's best to move on.
Loneliness, closure, boredom. Most guys still have a small bit of emotional attachment to some girls. Even more if its been years. At the end of the day we want something from ya. It may be for emotional value or something physical. Who knows it may just be to pass the time.
Its odd when its the other way around. I used to have these tomboyish oversized hoodies and never got them back from my first ex. Someone told me he started selling drugs out of it. Thats jacked up
It is a known fact that people always go back to WHAT IS FAMILIAR. They are too afraid to start over again from scratch, so they return to the former because they want to stick with what they know.
In response to the update- I'm sure a lot of guys do come back. Most of the women in my past have come back, so I don't think it's a male/female thing, but a personality thing. Maybe most people just go back, and us who don't ever go back are just a minority. That's actually pretty plausible.
Never have never will. All individuals are just that individual. I might just be weird, but i can't afford to look back, let alone back track. Believe what you will, might just depend on the guy.
They don't know what they want. Stay away. It will only mess with your head and waste time. Focus on men who has something going for them, men who knows what they want.
Because all you had to offer was sex & he's addicted to that. He hasn't learned to control his addiction/mind yet. Don't worry as you get older you'll run into more and more guys who are unimpressed by you.
I also wonder what it's like to be a woman who always had male attention... suddenly realize that the guy she dumped last week/month is the last guy who will ever be interested in even pretending to take her seriously. Must be soul crushing.
I don’t know where you come up with the idea men always come back. Once a woman burns her bridges with me that’s it, never again, gone, bye, don’t let the door hit ya in the ass.
Can’t say I ever had something go wrong on my end to encourage myself to end things. As for me ending things, I have only done it in the early on getting to know them dating phase. Which if I don’t feel it then, I never will and just moved on and never looked back. Frankly, it always feels like a weight lifted when I end things in those moments. Otherwise, I was never the one to end our “relationship”. …further, only one I have ever missed. Still never saw her after she ended things. I never saw any of them. Nor tried.
No, not really interesting. One thing I have figured out about women is that when you women have made your mind about something, that is that. No matter the circumstances or whether it is in regard to a great relationship or a bad relationship … when you make your minds up about whatever, there is no changing your minds even if it is to your detriments. Which is why I have never seen an ex from any past relationship ever again I figure. For better or worse, there is zero point in trying to change a woman’s mind once it is made. It is impossible.
I'm still in love with my ex and I care for my other exes, but I would NEVER under any circumstances take them back. Even if they went above and beyond my expectations. The damage is done and once it's done I can't overlook it.
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I hop in my car with my friends and play my song.
“Riding round town with my niggas. Ridin' 'round town with my niggas
We gon' make a movie, smoke this doobie
Yeah, let's chill a while
Every single night I'm lookin' for a chick to pickup”
Because they start missing the ex girlfriend and the ex girlfriend is a familiar face when the guy still remains single. They remember the good times but they can’t deal with the present troubled situation so they get kind of confused. Some go back for sex only but not all of them. Some still actually care
Dear Alyssa -- Once a male forms a bond, it's hard for him to break away. However, I've learnt to let sleeping dogs lie. I would dearly love to reconnect with some of my old girlfriends, but apart from anything else, there are half a continent away. I've lived in many places in my life, I think it's best to move on.
Loneliness, closure, boredom. Most guys still have a small bit of emotional attachment to some girls. Even more if its been years. At the end of the day we want something from ya. It may be for emotional value or something physical. Who knows it may just be to pass the time.
can I get my hoodie back? why you always keep my hoodies...
LOL!
Its odd when its the other way around. I used to have these tomboyish oversized hoodies and never got them back from my first ex. Someone told me he started selling drugs out of it. Thats jacked up
@DizzyDesii lmao... most likely, I'd be using it to carry my cat's kittens around
It wasn't that oversiZed 🤣 I had a skinny ex. But it had big pickets on it that made it seem oversized
@DizzyDesii lol... I don't have even to put it on then... kittens just get inside hoodies
I'm sure you're dealing with looser...
Here I block the girl from contact after I fucked her. New Hunt begin. Lol
Than you're with simp...
Lol I don't even want to see her face after sex. Lol
Lol I haven’t had sex with anybody
It is a known fact that people always go back to WHAT IS FAMILIAR. They are too afraid to start over again from scratch, so they return to the former because they want to stick with what they know.
Maybe you are just magical, I never went back before.
In response to the update- I'm sure a lot of guys do come back. Most of the women in my past have come back, so I don't think it's a male/female thing, but a personality thing. Maybe most people just go back, and us who don't ever go back are just a minority. That's actually pretty plausible.
Could be
Cuz many guys understand what they've lost only afterwards. Then again, the trait of appreciation of what u have is rare, so, no wonder.
Never have never will. All individuals are just that individual.
I might just be weird, but i can't afford to look back, let alone back track. Believe what you will, might just depend on the guy.
I have never went back or even tried when it's over it's over, so in your case I'm going to say because your hot
They don't know what they want. Stay away. It will only mess with your head and waste time. Focus on men who has something going for them, men who knows what they want.
Because all you had to offer was sex & he's addicted to that. He hasn't learned to control his addiction/mind yet. Don't worry as you get older you'll run into more and more guys who are unimpressed by you.
I also wonder what it's like to be a woman who always had male attention... suddenly realize that the guy she dumped last week/month is the last guy who will ever be interested in even pretending to take her seriously. Must be soul crushing.
I don’t know where you come up with the idea men always come back. Once a woman burns her bridges with me that’s it, never again, gone, bye, don’t let the door hit ya in the ass.
Come back? As in we ended things or you did and they still long for you?
After they end things or something went wrong from their end
Can’t say I ever had something go wrong on my end to encourage myself to end things. As for me ending things, I have only done it in the early on getting to know them dating phase. Which if I don’t feel it then, I never will and just moved on and never looked back. Frankly, it always feels like a weight lifted when I end things in those moments. Otherwise, I was never the one to end our “relationship”. …further, only one I have ever missed. Still never saw her after she ended things. I never saw any of them. Nor tried.
Interesting
No, not really interesting. One thing I have figured out about women is that when you women have made your mind about something, that is that. No matter the circumstances or whether it is in regard to a great relationship or a bad relationship … when you make your minds up about whatever, there is no changing your minds even if it is to your detriments. Which is why I have never seen an ex from any past relationship ever again I figure. For better or worse, there is zero point in trying to change a woman’s mind once it is made. It is impossible.
I'm still in love with my ex and I care for my other exes, but I would NEVER under any circumstances take them back. Even if they went above and beyond my expectations. The damage is done and once it's done I can't overlook it.
Then you see my point. There is no point - in trying. So why even wait time, energy, or whatever? Zero reason. That is my point.
Good point. Unfortunately not everyone realises this.
I didn’t when I was young or when I found myself dating again in my 40s, but then again I’m from an older generation.
I don't. If the lady didn't want me around the first time, she won't want me around the second time.
Literally never done that. I don't really deal with anyone who don't contact me so it would be them coming back to me if anything like that happened.
I have tried reuniting with three different exes. It never works and I eventually learned that lesson.
Im waiting for my guy best friend to realize what he has and come back to me… i hope he does i love him so much