Guys, Do guys see skinny girls as more fragile/breakable?

[Anonymous]

versus a chubbier girl, do guys see thin/skinny girls as fragile like they should be more careful with them? What about shorter girls? Thanks!

[MrOracle]

Many do, yes, especially when younger.

My first long-term girlfriend was pretty petite, and I am a pretty big guy, and when younger, I'd read about women who complained about how some guys wouldn't support their weight when on top of a girl, so I always made a point to support myself on my hands/elbows and knees so that I didn't crush her. Well, the third or fourth time we had sex, she was kissing me, and she wrapped her arms and legs around me, trying to pull me down onto her.

I didn't quite understand what she was doing, even though she was literally hanging her body below mine, having lifted herself up off the bed. I finally stopped kissing her and asked what she was doing, and she said "I want to feel your weight on me." I remember being very surprised by that, and then thinking "I'm not sure she knows what she's asking", but she did know, and she was adamant that I wasn't going to break her. So I carefully put my weight on her, and she started nodding happily and encouraged me to resume thrusting, and I remember my mind being a bit blown.

Since then, I've ASKED the girls I've been with what they liked, and most of them agreed with her: they wanted to feel their guy's weight on top of them - it comforts them and makes them feel small and feminine. But a few didn't like that, and preferred me to support my own weight, which was fine. It's definitely much better just to come right out and ask, though, because you don't know which kind of woman you're going to end up with, and you don't want to assume and choose poorly.

[Pyrofox]

If I can visably see the bones underneath yeah I'm probably going to treat you extra fragile.

As to short girls I generally respect them knowing they maybe short but their personality and energy often makes up for the shortness.

Generally I try to treat girls as politely as possible so long as you don't force me to drag out my annoyed side of me.

[Hawner]

I know they are not that fragile, but I always had that fear that I could snap them in half if I hugged them too strongly. I've always been on the taller side and have quite some strength, so I had to be careful with that.

[Mofunfour20]

No theyre usually very flexible. Overweight people are more fragile because their bodies are stressed from carrying such a load

[MrCommodore]

Do you mean like more fragile or breakable during sex?

[Asker]

Yes including sex

[MrCommodore]

Yeah a little bit, definitely would probably be extra careful with a super skinny or small/petite woman, as I'd likely be physically twice her size and naturally would be extra careful not to hurt/break her.

[Wester1967]

No. Skinny, fit, low BMI women are More engagable. Fat women engender no desire for engagement with me.

[ohshee]

Believe me skinny girls are not fragile they can handle quite a bit

[UK-NaturistGuy]

Not at all, I have known slimmer ladies who are able to handle rougher sexual acts compared to some chubbier ladies.

[bigpauly]

Hmm, it's nothing I ever put much thought into as I am really short and small myself.

[Anonymous]

girls who are to skinny like kay adams and kendall jenner yes fragile. girls with a little meat on her bones no.

[Opinion Owner]

girls with a little meat on her bones no not fragile

[staybehind2]

I'm undecided🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

[carlova]

All are strong