What does it mean when a guy says he has you all figured out after the fourth date?

[bubblespopcorn]

[caring__1]

It means he either sees the few qualities he prioritizes or he sees the red flags that shut him down. Either way, he hasn't taken the time to get to know all your dimensions.

It's common for people to just focus on one or a few items on their check list, especially if they just left another relationship. In that case, they are just looking for what was missing in the last one and not looking at the whole package. When they see red flags, they either end the relationship or limit it to just meeting their needs. You want to know if he is superficially just judging you on a few items or if he has written off any possible future with you. Ask him to share what he sees and what impact it has on him.

[Browneye57]

Well hell, I've got you figured out and I've never even met you. LOL
Once a guy has the knowledge and experience with what makes women tick, why they do what they do, what drives them, they are beyond predictable. AWALT - all women are like that.

[LerchSmokesBud420]

Probably could mean he's been with plenty of other girls just like you just got to figure out his intentions now

[CuriousAZ]

No more mystery? No future together.