Guys? Would you date an older woman? Have you ever been attracted to an older woman?

[On_cloud_wine]

So I told this guy that his younger brother is cute, and asked him if he’s seeing anyone, and what he thinks if I dated him. He avoided eye contact and says “we’ll see about that” and I was like.. “whattt you don’t approve?”
What does his reaction and comment mean?

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by the way.. the guy I asked is the bad brother amongst them all, and at one time he hit on me, but I just laughed because he’s too crazy

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I was also joking with him but I’m still letting him believe I’m serious because it’s funny.. am I horrible?

[ohshee]

When I was 15 1/2 16 years old I was babysitting for a lady when she got home the lady that she was with asked me if I wanted ride home I said sure come to find out she live like two blocks from me we went to her house first and one thing led to another to another that lasted for a whole year everyday or every night but I absolutely loved older women I my age now and I still find myself looking at 8 they D in their thirties or forties or fifties because I still feel like I'm 21 or something but I like all the women they are hot every year she told me that she was getting back with her husband and I never knew that she even had a husband I was kind of bummed out but she introduced me to one of her friends and I think she was 35 or 36 I'm not sure I don't remember but that lasted for about a year and older women are just hotter

[PolishedMonkey]

I’m gonna go out on a limb here and suggest you may want to try and talk someone less errr valuable than yourself to maybe start your car each morning while you remain safe inside your home. This guy sounds like someone I used to read about. I won’t say his name but it sounds like Luna Somber if ya get my meaning.

[On_cloud_wine]

I’m not gonna rely on any guy to do such a thing for me. You sound paranoid

[On_cloud_wine]

What part of my description made you feel that way?

[FinalFantasyBro]

As long she isn't as old as my grandparents I am good, I kinda don't want to date a girl who just reminds me of my grandmother or grandfather, I love my grandparents but I just don't want to date anyone around there age range. 18 years old through 60 years old is my age limit.

[Anonymous]

Yes for both of question title.

For the description, I think he is opposed to older women dating his brother. He may be taking it in the wrong way. I think you need to go to him yourself and ask him. Well, first hang out with him so he will be less likely to be weirded out by the question. Best of luck.

[On_cloud_wine]

Maybe he’s opposed but he’s in his let 30s dating a 21 year old

[Recurrence]

I’m honestly not sure. I don’t have any experience, and I don’t really interact with older women, I’m 25, so I feel like “older woman” in my mind is like 30-40 years old, I don’t think I would date someone much older than that

[On_cloud_wine]

I act playful and look a lot younger than I am.. it’s hard to picture it unless you meet me lol

[Recurrence]

Fair, I just haven’t been with anyone, so I would just feel a little insecure and inadequate

[On_cloud_wine]

That’s understandable

[TommyMountainFigure]

I've dated older women before but I draw the line at dating a woman who can remember a time before electricity was discovered!

[Redstang88]

Depends how much, but probably. Last girl I was seeing was almost 3 years older

[On_cloud_wine]

A 3 year difference is hardly noticeable

[jasco]

Yea I don't see why not as long as she isn't older than 25

[On_cloud_wine]

So 6 years + is your limit

[jasco]

yea 18 to 25 is my age range,

[On_cloud_wine]

Prime years

[jasco]

yea thats right

[On_cloud_wine]

They’re more fertile

[Jayplays900]

I wouldn't mind, as long as she wasn't 70 or something like that.

[On_cloud_wine]

Why would you though?

[Pterodon]

I’ve dated cougars as much as 15 years older when I was younger

[On_cloud_wine]

Are they called cougars if they’re dirt poor?

[Pterodon]

Nope

[On_cloud_wine]

Oh boy I might be a cougar

[Pterodon]

The definition of a cougar is an older woman on the prowl for younger guys that can satisfy their ego that their still sexy and to satisfy their sexual thirst they aren’t getting from guys their age

[On_cloud_wine]

Ehh I don’t sleep around, but I have options. I guess I’m a different kind of cougar

[Pterodon]

No you fit one of those definitions.

[Pterodon]

I say have fun while you can. Fuck the shit out of him

[On_cloud_wine]

No thanks. You made me feel dirty. Suddenly I lost interest

[Pterodon]

There’s nothing dirty about wanting to feel wanted

[Pterodon]

There’s nothing dirty about sex

[On_cloud_wine]

It’s a temporary feeling if both parties hearts’ aren’t in it

[Pterodon]

Your heart is in it. Seduce him. You’re older and more mature and have been around. You know how to get him

[On_cloud_wine]

No that’s called lust

[Pterodon]

So. . .

[On_cloud_wine]

I don’t love him. How do you live like that

[Pterodon]

Because people need intimacy. People need to feel desired. People need sex. It’s that simple

[On_cloud_wine]

But why waste your time with strangers when you can find one person to do all that with?

[Pterodon]

Because that’s not always possible

[On_cloud_wine]

Why?

[Pterodon]

Because love is hard to find. I don’t make the rules

[On_cloud_wine]

I’m sure it’s hard to find when your preoccupied with the wrong ones

[Pterodon]

That doesn’t have anything to do with it

[On_cloud_wine]

How so?

[Pterodon]

Because those are just temporary have fun things and both know it

[On_cloud_wine]

So the girl you fall in love with, you don’t mind that she fooling around herself until something better comes along? How would you feel if she banged 5 of your best friends (let’s assume you have friends if you don’t)

[Pterodon]

The girl I fall in love with won’t start out as a hookup. Cougars are only looking for hookups and know it won’t last

[On_cloud_wine]

I know my question is about being a cougar, but I’m changing the subject now. I’m entitled to since this is my question. We’re talking about you now.

[Pterodon]

Message me

[On_cloud_wine]

So the girl of your dreams won’t hook up with you like you normally hook up, correct? Is that what you’re implying?

[Pterodon]

Yes.

[postaldudePL123]

I'm already dating a girl 1 year older than me. She's nice I love her. She's loves me.

We both have good understanding of eachother.

[On_cloud_wine]

Yayy.

[Nachowedgie]

I would and I have been attracted to older women, when I was 20 I was really into a 28 year old

[On_cloud_wine]

I looked like I was 16 when I was 28

[Anonymous]

generally no but when I was 12 I was attracted to older women. that didn't last long though

[On_cloud_wine]

Your babysitter?

[Opinion Owner]

celebrities on the tv

[On_cloud_wine]

Which celebrity?

[Opinion Owner]

i dont remember specifically

[On_cloud_wine]

Lies

[Opinion Owner]

WTF?

[On_cloud_wine]

How could you forget?

[Opinion Owner]

i don't want to explain anything more to you

[On_cloud_wine]

I accept that.

[Opinion Owner]

I was attracted to Linda Carter during reruns of Wonder Woman. I had a painful boner through the whole show until I could release my built of semen

[On_cloud_wine]

Aw look who decided to open up lol…..

[On_cloud_wine]

She is of Mexican, Spanish and French descent

[On_cloud_wine]

Beautiful woman she was

[Opinion Owner]

She was a real woman. Not like Katelynn Jenner

[Gwenhwyfar]

The guy you asked is into you

[On_cloud_wine]

Heh.. no thank you. He knows I wouldn’t give him the time of day.. I’m the only girl his girlfriend trusts alone with lol

[Gwenhwyfar]

Cool. But even if you’re not into him he’s defo into you.

[On_cloud_wine]

He’s into every girl.. he’s quite the horn dog. He is seeing someone though but she trusts him -0 so they’re always at it. I know he feels like his brother is doing a lot better than him and now that I’ve been around them longer this week, I’m starting to think that he’s just trying to be protective of him.

[On_cloud_wine]

And I’m getting mixed feelings that he’s into me too so I’m confused

[Gwenhwyfar]

He’s Defo into you

[Gwenhwyfar]

In a horny way

[On_cloud_wine]

That’s laughable.

[Gwenhwyfar]

He’s a player. You’re a girl. Odds are better than even he wants you.

[On_cloud_wine]

Ok that’s out of the question. You can stop now

[Gwenhwyfar]

Whatever. You said he was a horn dog. Why wouldn’t he wanna bang you?

[On_cloud_wine]

The question was about his reaction about me being interested in his brother. I fully understand that you think it’s because he’s interested in me. thanks for your opinion

[Gwenhwyfar]

Welcome

He’s jealous

[DeshawnM]

hell nah thats expired milk right there

[On_cloud_wine]

What age is expired milk for your 24 year old butt?

[VikingWarLord]

I nail Cougars and MILFs all the time!

[On_cloud_wine]

Fabulous.

[Iron_Man]

No only as a teen

[On_cloud_wine]

Well I guess once you reach a certain age, it reverses… lol I remember being in my early 20s and only liking guys in their late 30s

[Iron_Man]

Right for sure