Is he being jealous and possessive?

[Anonymous]

My guy since nearly 2 years got very upset and mad because I got some unwanted phone calls late in the evening from some guy I used to know before my current one. He demanded I called the person to tell them not to call ever again or he would do it for me. Was he just annoyed with getting disturbed or is he being jealous and possessive of me?

[Miristheiss]

He is a guy.
He expects his girl to be committed and not keep a bunch of orbiters hanging around his girl. His isn't bashful... he tells it like it is.
Don't be encouraging other guys to come sniffing around and if they do get rid of them.
He expects his girl to respect the exclusivity and intimacy of the relationship.

If you don't like him being alpha and running off dogs in heat that are sniffing around... why you are more than free to end it and to go start up with a less alpha guy. No one is making you stay.

He is free to just walk away if you like to keep a lot of orbiters and guys hanging around you trying to be "friends". You are both free to leave if you aren't happy.

He is up front and clear that he is your man and you are the only lady for him. If it is too strong for you then walk away.

[Pyrofox]

Guys are territorial with rivals better cut the ex off before the current one goes to castration >.> JK but in all seriousness its really not good to be talking to ex's if your in a relationship. Its dishonest and it really gives off the wrong vibes.

[Asker]

I’m not talking to any exes. This person contacted me anyway. I told them off. Still, threatening to phone this person up is a little bit over the top, or isn’t it?

[Pyrofox]

Well either get him to lay off or the the current boyfriend is gonna get to the boiling point. If the current boyfriend sees it going I'd bet good money he's prepared to throw hands if it keeps up.

[zaharuh]

Personally I like it when men fight for what's theirs to an extent of course, but to say you should stop talking to random guys is probably the right call and he's trying to make you realize that. I could be wrong but like it's probably instincts for most men to want some control which is okay I think.

[boggboss]

Thats vary controlling behaviour lol yes a level of that is concern but hownhe acted was wrong