I told him I want to give oral to his friend during an argument. Is it that bad?

[Anonymous]

he kept expecting me to get him out of debts and when I said no he tried to accuse me of flirting with his friend just because me and his friend sometimes talk as a friends too and he has been insecure about us being friends for months he asked me not to have other guys I talk to and i told him I just speak to his friend about college related stuff he called me a liar and it was just getting on my nerves so I was like “mhmm yeah you’re right I want to suck his dick” I backtracked after I realised what I said and explained I was just talking shit etc

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Update: he blocked me.

[PatrickFusion]

It's not great. I guess the best thing to do is try to empathize. He doesn't really know what you guys talk about and he's obviously jealous and scared to lose you.
If the roles were reversed and he told you that he wanted to lick you friend's pussy, it might make things worse, you might get even more paranoid.

[Asker]

Yeah I would’ve been upset.. but I reassured him and told him I want him and not his friend and that in my eyes another guy is whack because they aren’t him and he just ignored it all and blocked me oh well lesson learned.

[InspecturGajit]

It sounds like from the conversation you were being sarcastic. I say let him go. His insecurity and jealously will never go away. Also why should you be getting him out of debt, I can see why he is insecure and has a low opinion of himself. He sounds like a loser.

[coffeismytea]

well, you've fucked up, guy was already insecure and you've preyed upon it.
You can still make amends but your relationship sounds highly toxic already, and if you guys are to be together again, you need to work your trust. Without trust it's impossible for this to work...

[Asker]

he has blocked me, perhaps he’ll come back but I’m not gonna chase or hold my breath I told him I was just saying that and then that I want him and the other dudes I don’t have interest in. so I did try to rectify it but oh well

[coffeismytea]

you should apologize again when you get the chance, than you can ignore him. If you ignore him now you'll shatter your relationship in ways that might make it impossible to fix, or take years, and when I say years I'm talking about like a decade or so.

[PositiveNote]

I would just blow it off (the statement LOL). It's really no big deal.

[Asker]

It’s a shame he couldn’t blow it off lmao he blocked me

[PositiveNote]

Well, if he didn't bother to find out if you were joking or not, the dude dropped the ball on his foot!

[es20490446e]

No, as it was obvious sarcasm.

For instance that kind of sarcasm can make people relax about the situation, as they realize it's just nonsense what they are thinking.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like the guy was mooching off of you and is jealous/controlling. If that is true you are better off without him. If you get along with his friend, keep seeing him. Maybe it will become more than a friendship or he will remain a good friend.

[FunkyMonkee]

No but, how are you going to argue with your mouth full of dick?

[Anonymous]

Yes you done fucked up. Its gonna take a lot of blowjobs to make him forget that

[Opinion Owner]

Update: did you offer him a blowjob?

[Wester1967]

Yes. You’ll be lucky if this one lasts

[Asker]

he blocked me after I said that, didn’t even respond to my reassurance and compliments after that damn it must’ve touched a nerve

[Wise4myage]

Yes, why in hell would you say that?

[Asker]

Because he kept assuming me and his friend weren’t just friends so I said the worst possible thing to let him see how silly it sounds but he blocked me I must’ve touched a nerve by even saying that

[Wise4myage]

Ahh, ok.

[REDHOTLINE]

Do you really want to give him oral?

[REDHOTLINE]

Dont dört I am here :P

[Asker]

I didn’t want to give him oral I was simply just kidding

[REDHOTLINE]

I dont think :P you want hım and his cum in your mouth 😈

[Hangry06]

Who is 'he'?

[Anonymous]

hahahahahaha

[Jmmmfi4]

Well... its not good