Why would my boyfriend want to go to the strip club?

[Anonymous]

Am i over reacting to be upset that he even wants to go? He claims that it is fun. Guys, if you had a girlfriend would you still consider going to the strip club?

[horsenrhinounicorn]

here's what I think based on what you said: It sounds immature to have a girlfriend and spend time looking at another. Typically this means he is not ready for getting married. For most men its usually a fantasy or because they are lonely. So in your case I would think its a fantasy, a desire for someone to be sympathetic, listen, interact and empathize. Some men go since they feel they can't tell their partner about certain strange fetishes, wanting to see a woman that can spice up their drive or they have out of sync sex drives with their partner, wanting women to tell them exactly what they want to hear, and not be judged.


The good thing is your partner and being open and honest on telling you what he is doing.


Talk to him about your feelings concerning it.
Does it make you jealous, do you want to go with him. Do you feel not loved or that he likes looking at them rather than you.


The issue on the mans brain is looking and lusting

[Asker]

He’s going on a holiday with he’s work mates. I was offered to go but i didn’t want to, cause i want them to have their own boys trip. I think it just makes me feel uncomfortable knowing he wants to go and will be seeing boobs or like getting lap dances.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I'm to old for that but he wants to go to watch girls strip its really that simple

[Anonymous]

As a couple, you should be open to do thing. I am sure strip clubs are available for both men and women. Take him to the male’s one unless he was very specific. Tell him you guys are going to a strip club just like he wanted, dress up all hot and then let him watch you while you get all the fun. Next time, it can be his turn. 🙃

[Anonymous]

Guys go to strip clubs to blow off some steam and have fun.