Guys, Is he trying to trap me with a baby?

[Always79Girl]

I have been dating this guy for about 2 1/2 months. We get along great and he seems to be a really nice guy. The only thing is whenever we have sex he keeps finishing inside of me even though I told him not to because I’m not comfortable taking Plan B pills (or getting on birth control ) all the time because I’m afraid it will mess up my body. He already has a child so I’m not sure if he wants another one but one time we talked about it and he asked me if I would get an abortion if needed and I said yes he seem like he would agree with my decision. But if he would agree on me getting an abortion why does he keep finishing inside of me? Why even go through the hassle of getting an abortion? Do you think he’s actually trying to trap me with a baby and pretending like he’s not?

i’m also aware that we could just wear condoms but that’s not my question I’m curious to know if this is what guys do when they want to trap you with a baby.

[Kaneki05]

For one he cannot trap you with a baby. Your the one who decides on abortion or not. Guys don't have any legal right there. So only guys can be trapped with a baby realistically. Unless you living in a backwards place that don't allow abortions i suppose.

Tbh i just think he likes the feeling of it and been selfish not realising respect to have safety.

[MotorcycleMan]

Not respecting your wishes on this is a pretty big red flag. Sounds like he cares more about his second of pleasure than he does about you. Move on.

[anylolone]

Possible. Insist in condoms.