I've been flirting with a guy for a year why did he only just tell me he had feelings for me?

[Anonymous]

[jaybee281]

The only one I agree with is @MrHopper - I've been in situations where when I really loved the girl I still valued my friendship with her a lot - Things such as telling her how I feel or kissing her break that boundary and the change is sometimes scary to be honest - Like there is no turning back and now we're happy and fun so should I do it? - that's pretty much what was happening with him..

[MrHopper]

It's difficult and hard to tell girls... Sometimes the friendship you have is enough and you don't want to risk losing them

[mark000h]

Maybe he wasn't ready before. Also, a lot of guys aren't good at picking up on the signs girls think are obvious.

[Wise4myage]

He probably wasn't sure how he felt, or he's extremely shy.

[FilmGuy93]

Because he finally felt comfortable telling you

[jasco]

Because he was testing you

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[jasco]

He wanting to see if you were willing to wait for him or not

[Asker]

Pretty weird

[HooliganMcCooligan]

Sometimes it just takes a while to open up.