My boyfriend slept with my brothers girlfriend?

[bp181997]

Hello, I have been with a man I care so much for, for years, but he needs to work on himself, so last summer I needed to leave him to work on myself and him too, and when we weren't talking he slept with my brother's girlfriend. *the same thing was happening to them*.. He says he didn't do anything wrong bc he thought he was single, but I can't stop thinking about it.. but even my brother and the girl are back together because he forgave her. So should I realize I was the reason he was single, and he could do what he wanted, and forgive and forget? Or move on

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+1 y

Would it be weird at family events? and they both say they don't like each other like that, that it was "meaningless sex", but aren't they still attracted to each other?

[AviatorTom]

From what you said, he thought you two had broken up, so it doesn't matter what you think. He acted like a single guy. If you still want a relationship with him, put this behind you and work on your current (and future) relationship with him.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

You two were broken up.. thems two was broken up.

Admit it, you're just pissy that he took advantage of the time he spent single at all.

Ignore everyone in the comments giving your ass sympathy. You don't need it.

[douride2]

Don't you mean your EX boyfriend? If my boyfriend slept with someone else he would be my EX & out on his ass.

[PeterSmith1983]

Up to you to decide, but I guess if he was single he can fuck someone else.

[Wise4myage]

Move on from that clown.

[888theGreat]

Only trash would forgive trash for that