Guys, are you sometimes a bit shy around girls you’re attracted to?

[Anonymous]

If you’re feeling a girl or think she’s cute, are you sometimes shy to talk to her directly? How do you generally act around her? Or would you go straight up to her and go get what you want? I’ve heard that if a guy wants to, he will approach you.

[Anonymous]

If I'm attracted to someone, I will put on my "A game" and go straight after them, being especially direct, engaging, talkative all the while trying to come across as nonchalant about it.
Obviously, I feel anxious the whole time since the stakes are high and I get flustered if I happen to mess up, but I do my best to not show that to the object of my interest.

Being shy is not how you get women, that's just going to make them think they are the bigger catch and then you are pretty much done for.

[Naxwi]

Yeah, of course we can be, depending on the crush. Guys have to learn to approach tho and we're not all equally good with it. I would just throw some non shallow compliments into the conversation see if they reciprocate, ask them out.

[Shy_Steve]

That's bullshit "If a Guy likes he will approach you", If a Guy likes you there is less than a 50% chance he will approach you because most of us Guys usually get intimidated by your Confidence usually and things you do with other Guys so nothing's gonna happen usually unless you approach him.

[Wise4myage]

I was and still am. I hate it.

[JamesDeann]

Can't say I am, no.

[willjohnsonlol]

Yeah.