Why does he bother texting everyday?

[Anonymous]

Why would he wanna keep in contact or text everyday if we are never online same time or he doesn't even try to answer fast anymore, I don't know if we both are doing this to eachother…. Like if he responds after 4 hours i rnd up doing the same. Maybe i should respond fast next time… or maybe he just doesn't wanna talk im confused… he told me he's changed his routines

[awkward_author]

He wants to talk to you but doesn't always have the time, so he messages when he can. Depending on the specifics, he may even like you.

[Asker]

Specifics? Like what

[awkward_author]

The context of the situation. It might be a good idea to talk to him about this.

[Asker]

I did and i was like we dont talk same time anymore and he was like pain… he only responded quick when i said i had something important to say. So i realised oh he does get notifications But doesn't consider opening unless its important or necessary

[awkward_author]

If he doesn't consider responding to you important, is that something you're okay with?

[Asker]

No thats why im being distant too i responded to him after a day today

[Asker]

The thing im not getting is why fors he bother even. Like from the way i see it now, like i dont understand if he's not interested he should just completely cut off

[awkward_author]

At the end of the day, you're going to have to decide whether or not this is worth holding on to.

[Asker]

Probably not, when i only respond to people fast when they say ”i have something important to say” that means im not interested and im probably bored. So im taking that he means it the same considering he responded directly when i said that.

[Asker]

Like if im low ibterest to him then he should just stop completely texting me everyday

[awkward_author]

It's your call. I think he likes talking to you when he has time, and that's why he's contacting you.

[Asker]

He does like talking to me, who doesn't? But it feels useless when every response is one sided

[Asker]

There isn't even a convo its response to previous messages since we aren't online same time

[awkward_author]

If it's bothering you, and it can't be solved, maybe it's best to stop talking to him?

[Asker]

Yeah i guess so