He said on the date “I don’t wanna make a move cause I thought you weren’t feeling the company” I brushed it off. Did I blow it?

[anonbrunette99]

I later told him I have autism / Asperger’s and that’s why ! But he mentioned it twice like that he wanted to make a move but he didn’t think I was feeling it that he doesn’t get awkward but he senses it on other people and said he has a feeling I didn’t like the company but feelings could be wrong and I said what do you mean and laughed then said I guess you’re wrong..

He still didn’t make a move though! At all… we where at the movies/cinema so there was ways he could have

[awkward_author]

It might help for you to make a move instead of waiting for him. He obviously doesn't know what you want because he can't read you. If you like him, show him.

[Mark987]

Not at all.. Just be honest and tell him how you feel. You can't lose anything if you just tell him " Hey I want you to make the first move"

[yucel_eden]

Well, that’s life for you.


He’s lost interest, get back on tinder

[anonbrunette99]

yeah but I wonder if I had have properly indicated interest would it have went better

[yucel_eden]

You need to understand the cues of someone to make that move without scaring them, so appropriately…yes it would have but don’t linger over it

[princeofromance]

You did not blow anything. It was him who missed his chance to be with a great girl / woman.

[Anonymous]

Communication and openly clearing the air is key. If you two really wanted each other, you guys would have hooked up already. Just enjoy yourself.

[rabbitzzz]

Get on a date and give him a 12 hour consent form.

[noohair]

Dating is the 21st century is complicated.

[Hotboy_booblover]

He sounds toxic...

[anonbrunette99]

how?

[Hotboy_booblover]

He always spoils ur mood.. he needs to respect u and not take u for granted