When is it an appropriate time to reach out if a guy leaves you read/ seen?

[Anonymous]

[TommyMountainFigure]

I first off have to confess I don't understand much of the terminology regarding all these facebook social thingies or whatever, but from my understanding you left him a message which he knows is there, and he hasn't bothered to read it? That's just rude. Instead of reaching out further, I would consider you deleting him. Sure it might hurt at first, but you'll get stronger from it and eventually become immune from caring whether someone responds or not.

[Anonymous]

Some people would advise you to just go ahead and reach out if you want to talk, and no judgement from me if you do. Personally I wouldn’t reach back out unless it was for something very serious. Because he saw the message, read it and left it. He knows that it’s just waiting there unanswered — thats him choosing not to respond. So if this is just a case of you having a crush, missing him, etc etc then to me his silence is saying everything about how he feels regarding any of that.

[mark000h]

I would give it a couple of days, then try a phone call. If nothing, then move on, likely not interested/ghosting.

[Asker]

He does ghost but then comes back weeks or months afterwards our friendship is on and off he’s got issues

[mark000h]

Sounds about right.

[Asker]

So hopefully he apologizes lol
I’m not going to keep pushing though gonna wait until around spring or maybe summer or you know see what he does till then

[Northernlights25]

One day later I'd say and just ask if everything's okay etc.

[Wise4myage]

That's rude, so never in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

Until he himself reaches you back, else move on 😊

[HeartBreaker007]

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