If a guy leaves you on read, should you message him first if it’s been a couple of days, or wait for him to text?

[Anonymous]

[Saramad_Hill]

Really really depends on what you sent last. Was it anything of substance? Cause I have a girl in my inbox who I haven't replied to because she left it on something like "nice, lol."
She messaged me first and to my knowledge is still super interested in me, but I can't handle a dry conversation.
Also it matters if they're interested in you enough or not whether they'll answer a hard-to-answer message.

[Adam1978]

If he leaves you on read you didn't give him anything to reply to, or your not important and should look elsewhere.

[Asker]

I texted him actually lol I think it was the first option you mentioned

[Blackcupcake]

if I know him well enough to know that he would never just leave me on read like that, I would be spamming him, because at that point I would be genuinely worried about his well being.


if I don’t know him well, and he just leaves me on read then I won’t bother messaging again or even pondering over it… I’d let it go and just go on with my day and life.

[Anonymous]

if a guy leaves you on read, he doesn't care enough about you. why would you still want that?

[Jamie05rhs]

Feel free to message. I think it's perfectly fine. If I make a mistake and forget to write back to someone, I'd rather be called out than be silently punished.

[Asker]

I reached out to him ☺️ seems like he was just busy honestly

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay. That's good! :)

[TallAnon]

If it's the first time it happened, perhaps something happened and he forgot, so feel free to message

[Asker]

Not the first time it has happened however last time it did happen it’s because he was going through stress. He has been on a vacation for a week and he told me he was supposed to come back last night but hasn’t texted me since Thursday

[TallAnon]

Seems like he's busy, give it a week and throw him a casual message if you're still interested

[Asker]

It’s been 3 days, would texting him today hoping he got back okay be needy?

[TallAnon]

It depends how close you are, but as long as you don't accuse him of anything or push your expectations on him, you should be fine

[Iron_Man]

You can message him

[Anonymous]

Texting is proven dead-end. Don't bother.

[spartan55]

You should call him.