Guy leaves me on read?

[Anonymous]

I've only been speaking to this guy since Sunday. But he offten leaves me on read and then will reply a few hours later. The longest was last night when he saw my message around 10pm, but didn't reply until 2pm today.

Should I be worried or I'm I thinking to much into it?

[Anonymous]

It's natural to feel a little anxious or uncertain when someone you're talking to leaves you on read or takes a while to reply. However, it's important to remember that people have different communication styles and schedules, and it's not always possible or necessary to reply immediately.

In this case, it's only been a few days since you started talking to this guy, so it's possible that he is still figuring out his own communication style and preferences. It's also possible that he is busy with other things in his life and doesn't have the time or energy to reply right away.

It's important to communicate openly and honestly with him about your feelings and concerns. You could try asking him directly about his communication style and preferences, and let him know how it makes you feel when he leaves you on read for extended periods of time.

Remember, ultimately, it's up to you to decide what you are comfortable with in terms of communication and relationship expectations. If you find that his communication style doesn't align with your needs, it may be worth re-evaluating the relationship and deciding whether or not to continue pursuing it.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Don't be worried unless it happens consistently. Everyone has shit come up and things happen, but there's no excuse for doing it all the time. That's just blatant disrespect.
Some people don't think it is, but even thinking it's not a big deal is disrespectful in and of itself

[WanderingLoveWizard]

The only time when ignoring a text and responding when it's convenient is if the other party is sending really long messages over and over. No one has time for that.
But simple one or two line messages can and should be responded to within a reasonable able amount of time. 15 minutes is reasonable. Anything over an hour is just plain laziness

[spartan55]

Worried about what?