Guys, I've been friends with a guy for a year. We flirt, finally decided to hook up, but then he changed his mind and refused to explain. why?

[Anonymous]

he knows I like him, he doesn't want to let me go either.

[Кураж]

Is he inexperienced? Shy? Awkward?
What's your chemistry like?

I'd say the most likely reason is a fear of inadequacy.

[Asker]

we have really great chemistry from the start, and he is the opposite of shy, he is a player and had a number of random girls before. that is why im so confused

[Кураж]

Yeah, that's odd.
What are your expectations? Have you ever expressed wanting more? Romance etc?
If he knows you "like him" then he probably doesn't want you to get attached, even if you claim you won't.

[Asker]

well, I said to him that I like him, but I don't want any type of relationship. Maybe you are right, but I would expect less communication from his part then.

[spartan55]

@asker
Had a number of random girls according to who? Him?

[Asker]

@spartan55 yes

[spartan55]

He lies.

[Anonymous]

Maybe the pressure got to him and he couldn't get it up?

[spartan55]

What do you mean 'let you go'?

[Asker]

I pulled away afterward, no contact, etc. But when I pull away he then reaches out in a few days.

[In_Trance]

block him and move on