A guy begged me to go out. after I said yes, we went out on one date, and then he pulled back? why do guys keep doing this?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

People's feelings and actions can be complex, and there isn't a one-size-fits-all answer. It's possible that he may have had a change of heart, personal reasons, or external factors influencing his behavior. Communication is key in understanding each other's expectations and intentions. If you feel comfortable, consider having an open conversation with him to gain insights into his perspective.

[Asker]

First of all, thank you for this answer. It’s very well said! I texted him and he didn’t respond. So I’m not sure how I should further communicate… yet he still follows me on instagram and watches my stories..

[Opinion Owner]

It's not uncommon for people to have different communication styles. Since he's still engaging with your social media, he might be unsure how to respond or prefers indirect interaction. Give it some time, and if you feel comfortable, you could express your feelings calmly and ask for clarification when the moment feels right. Understanding each other's perspectives is crucial in such situations.

[MittParekh15]

Generally a guy won't pull back when he is despirste or begging for the same

There must be a specific reason

[Anonymous]

It sounds like he may have potentially lost interest, but he may just be busy with life.

[Asker]

But why? Out of no where?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he realized you weren't a good fit.