Did he catch feelings?

[Anonymous]

Okay so there is this guy that I've been having sex with and we agreed we wouldn't get feelings involved that our agreement was strictly just sex because he wasn't interested in having a relationship and I was cool with it because I went through a lot during my previous relationship and have trust issues that I wanted to work on before I make another commitment towards anyone in the future. We'll during our last hook up he started bringing up saying he noticed I'm talking to other guys and when I explained that I'm honestly not talking to anyone that sure I have other dudes flirting with me and sometimes I do flirt back but I haven't done anything with them nor do I desire too and told him he is the only one I'm involved with at this moment that I'm not going around just having some sex party he started telling me that I can flirt with others but there not allowed to touch me or even think about sex with me. Even dissing my male friends lately that are close to me. Is he catching feelings?

[rebecca7fjdifg]

It sounds like he is getting jealous. But I will tell you a sad story. The same thing happened to me. I was crazy about my hook up. He told me I was beautiful but that he didn't want a relationship. 2 years down the line; he abruptly discarded me when he met this rich high status girl. I thought he had liked me considering he got jealous previously years prior when he saw me talking and flirting with another guy at the bar. But I was wrong I think. I don't think he liked me. I think he just didn't want to see me with someone else because of what it did to his EGO. Not his heart :( But who knows; maybe he liked me in the beginning? I don't know. I'll never know. I just know that he didn't like me enough because he left me for someone else.

[Asker]

I'm starting to think the same thing on my end that it isn't because he has feelings but because of his ego because some of his actions don't add up. I'm just relieved that I don't really have feelings for him truly so I don't have to go through a heartbreak. I'm sorry that happened to you thou. Just know the right one will pick you.

[Daniela1982]

I'm sure you have read on here enough about this subject that I'm pretty sure you know the answer. If you are just fuck buddies it is none of his business what you do on your own time. You made an agreement (it is smart to anyway) that neither will get involved with each other and if they feel they are getting feelings then they need to bug out. If it is a friends with benefits situation then I think you are somewhat accountable to them because you are friends. They have the right to know that they don't be catching something from some 3rd or 4th party. Either way, FB or friends with benefits, if they start getting overly into you it's time to call it quits.

C YA!

[spartan55]

Him acting like a jealous boob doesn't necessarily mean he has feelings.

[Asker]

That's true. Just kinda weird because we both agreed on no feelings and I'm cool with it and don't mind him inside other chick's faces but yet if I have someone flirting with me or asking me out its a problem

[spartan55]

You can't agree to no feelings, that's an impossible thing to guarantee.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Not necessarily.. Could just mean he's afraid if you get interested in or start having sex with someone else that his benefits with you will end

[Asker]

I was thinking the same thing but I didn't wanna ask him if that was what he was concerned about because it is a possibly that if I do find someone that I am interested in and likes me too that I will end the agreement but I don't want a relationship atm so he shouldn't be worried at least now.