Ladies. Why does the fact that men don't care enough make you angry?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I’m not angry because I understand why men don’t care about me. I don’t look like a stripper or a prostitute, so I have nothing to offer a man. I don’t deserve a man’s care or compassion or concern.

[Asker]

There is nothing wrong with you. Those female types are fir use not for keeps

[Jessica745855]

Because; it makes me feel unloved, unvalued, and unappreciated.

[Mistanuddi]

I love you

[Anonymous]

It depends on the situation. If it’s something not as important then not caring can slide to a certain degree at least. If it’s something important then the lady will feel like she’s not important or think that he doesn’t value her since he can’t be bothered to listen to her thoughts. Or she might even feel like she’s not good enough for him to just wanting to be heard and respected. Advice I’ve gotten from a healthcare professional: even if you don’t find it important but your partner does, at least try to listen or else they might find someone else who will.

[Asker]

Sometimes what's important to you isn't important to him and if you're naive enough to find another him who'd pretend to care to use you, then it's you're doing

[Opinion Owner]

That’s the whole thing of a relationship though like having somewhat care for the other person’s thoughts and feelings towards things. If you can’t find anything important in what your partner thinks is important, then you shouldn’t be dating since that’s disrespectful and you’re wasting the person’s time. I think most women know the difference between men who pretend to care and who actually care.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m just responding to your question “why does the fact that men don’t care enough make you angry?” And some of things I stated in my first post are reasons why most women do get mad. We can agree to disagree but that’s what tends to happen, it’s a very mental/emotional ordeal

[desidoll]

Not really. Unless she has little to no option then she would crave for your attention. If she is good looking, she is not going to bother as much because there will be ton of other men are waiting. Men really think they can play this immature game on women.

[Asker]

This attitude of there willl be plenty of men is what corrupt women

[Anonymous]

nah, only if we are talking about something super important like, I don't know, an important family member died for example. I often don't give much importance to simple things that can be easily solved and some people get annoyed that I take "things as a joke" or too lightly, lol, just chill.

[sheikalana]

they do care. they just don’t verbalize it the same way we do.

[MinxDoll]

Don’t care enough about what exactly? Can you specify.

[Asker]

The nonsense that stresses the average jo or sue lol

[MinxDoll]

@Mediterraneansoul I mean if it’s in relationship terms, as long as they don’t cheat and we both strive for something idc, I don't know how to answer cuz I don’t know what they don’t care about lol

[Asker]

Women are known to care about emotions people and looks, men care about things that are logical rather than emotionally driven...

[MinxDoll]

@Mediterraneansoul well that’s not the case for me, I’m driven with my brain not my heart, it depends on the woman, I personally don’t like to dive into emotions with anybody

[Asker]

Interesting. You must be one of a kind. Is that your preception of yourself or your reality?

[MinxDoll]

@Mediterraneansoul no i mean there’s prob plenty women just like me

[Lyndsielee666]

No because I also, do not care.

[Asker]

Nice to meet you. Lets not all care 😊

[Naimgood]

We just "don't care" lol. About anything or?

[Asker]

Things women they care about.

[Naimgood]

I think some women are driven by their emotions in the moment while guys are more logic driven. Logic and emotions are display very different values in most situations. So if it seems like we don't care about what you care about, maybe you don't care about what we don't care about. Im these moments of value comparison are you solution oriented or are you just trying to be heard and desire empathy? There's always exceptions to this rule and neither behavior is right or wrong.

[Asker]

Well said mate

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Depends on what they don’t care about.

[RandomDude21114165]

Imagine he doesn't care if u cheat. In fact he expects u to cheat. And just doesn't care.

[Flower7]

If he doesn’t care about ME, that’s a problem.

[Bel88]

Don't care enough about what?