Why is he mad I turned the tables?

[Anonymous]

He said he didn't want to speak a lot so I turned the tables and said I won't message him for 2 months and now he is mad why is that

[Anonymous]

Because he didn't ask you to fully stop talking to him he asked for space- both just sulking to each other. Tit for Tat i get that, but if you both react like that then juts dump his ass cause if you can't communicate effectively then what's the point?

[Asker]

If I give him space I wouldn't hear from him for like almost 2 weeks

[Opinion Owner]

That's what he wants though, he's asked for space so give him two weeks- not 2 months!

[Asker]

But it's long distance I might just move I see other people putting my effort in

[Asker]

Move on**

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah! Long distance and space seems a bit of a slippery slope. If you feel it's best to move on, go for it!! Im sure there are plenty of others willing to put a lot more effort in :)

[Asker]

Does he really require that much space when it's long distance anyway wtf

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah exactly that, i'd leave at that point!!! Can't get much more space than that 🤣

[SnakeBoop]

Both being immature.
Choosing silent treatment instead of working on issues shows you're a moron.

[boggboss]

Because instead of working out the issue u decided to sulk instead of work out why and fix that itself how do u think this will help u two u can day u don't care about him but if that was true he wouldn't be in your life

[Asker]

Why doesn't he just let me go if he's putting limits the texting what is dumbass he's got tons of girl to date if he's living in America

[boggboss]

The same way if u are being stubborn and if your not actually happy why not move on

[Anonymous]

Because you're both acting like children.

[Asker]

Showing him I don't give a crap about him either

[Opinion Owner]

Then why tf are you with him? Just dump him and act grown.

[Asker]

We weren't even a couple just friends with benefits and he would get upset if I dated other guys

[Anonymous]

both of you's are acting like childish dumbasses

[Asker]

he's putting limits on the texting so I put even bigger ones

[Opinion Owner]

again both of you's are acting like childish dumbasses

[Asker]

He expects me to put the effort so fuck it I'd rather put more limits on it see how he likes it

[Opinion Owner]

why don't you both get your heads out of your asses and start using what little brains you both have

[Asker]

he's probably not interested because I'm not a very attractive girl I'm average he's been unhappy for a long time

[Opinion Owner]

average isn't a bad thing never was a bad thing maybe he's unhappy because of all the cheating you did in the past

[Asker]

I've never had anyone in the past and I don't even go about dating guys jes the one the adding all the girls on Tinder and banging them

[Opinion Owner]

how do you know he's banging them?

[Asker]

Because he actually said

[Opinion Owner]

oh that's fucked up

[Asker]

I'm just moving on my new job will open doors to new people and things like like you know