Girls, is it a turn off if a guy doesn't like being out/up late at night?

[Anonymous]

I basically mean, he usually leaves events, bars, dates, etc. by around 10pm.

It's not a turn off. I don't like being up late at night either

It's not a turn off, even though I like being out late at night

Yes that's a turn off

[Anonymous]

In my mind, a turn on or off is if something someone does is hot/attractive or not. It’s not unattractive to stay out late, or to leave early, so I don’t think that matters so much. In your age range it’s normal for all the late night party stuff to be unappealing. Especially if you did it often in your early 20s, or never had a taste for the nightlife to start with. The right girl isn’t going to judge you for your preference and will also prefer nights in as opposed to the bar or club.

[Asker]

Thanks! I was at an event with other people of my age range where they went bar hopping. Basically just a social event, but I think most of them were there late and I left around 9:30. It's fun socializing and stuff, but I just don't like being up late and groggy the next day

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I get you. Personally I only stay out late on the weekends and don’t even like going out during the week anymore, since I have work or school in the am. Drinking and stuff hits different now that I’m over and I usually feel like trash the next day, which isn’t fun at all lol.

[Asker]

This actually was a Friday night lol. I just don't like staying up late even if it's a weekend

[Dinklex3]

Ehh. Not a turn off.
Last guy would be getting ready for bed around 8 and would be in the bed no later than 9:30, lol.
Just takes some getting used to and compromising.

[Explorer91]

Depends on his age.
i am nearly 31 and I have been going bars/ partying since I was 18. LegAl age to go to clubs/ bars in Australia is 18 not 21 like in the US.
when I was 18-25 I used to start the night late and get home very late.
but from about 27 I started the nights early. Like 5/6pm dinner and cocktails or wine and head home about 10/11pm at nicer cocktail bars or such. And most people I know around my age do this.
I have always been quite social and had a lot of friends. So I’d say this is very age appropriate if he is between 26-35.
but if you are into different kind of things I can understand how it can put you off. If a guy I was dating wanted to stay out until 3am I would probably be turned off and think he just didn’t party when he was younger and now trying to re create those days.