If he hasn’t texted me 4 days after the 5th date is he probably ghosted me?

[anonbrunette99]

i didn’t text him either mutual silence

[DaveJord]

Well it all depends on where you are in the relationship... if you haven't had sex yet then yeah he's probably losing interest. Now if you have had sex and he is ghosting then yeah he is definitely not interested.

Additionally when I get to a point in a relationship that I feel I am putting out more effort then she is I stop texting her to see if she will reply or not. So if you have not texted him in 5 days just because you are waiting on him to text first, then chances are you are not all that interested. He probably got that feeling from you already and that is why he has stopped. So you have to consider your own actions and do some honest self reflection, are you truly interested in this guy or just upset that he ghosted you first.

Believe it or not some guys have some self respect and are not as desperate as some other guys come off. They try of chasing women who do not chase them back. So if you are playing hard to get he is not willing to go along with it, because there a plenty of fish in the sea for guys that have real dating skills and know how to attract women.

[John_Doesnt]

Ghosting isn't real. People just realize that someone isn't worth their time anymore.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Well… You didn’t text him either, so you are just as well ghosting him lol

[anonbrunette99]

girl I hate this dating stuff I hope I find a guy soon because I don’t wanna text first hahahaha…

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I get it.. Maybe try and text him and ask how he’s doing, maybe then he will try and plan another date

[dudeinohio]

You should have texted him, then. Don't play this game of who should text who.

[Guardian45]

Well, if neither one of you is texting, than both of you have made your decision.

[Borntwofly]

She should have cared as much as you. walk away

[anonbrunette99]

you mean he, right?

[EaterPeter]

Strange