Do you date or not?

[Anonymous]

I don’t. I don’t think women deserve me. I’m a good guy, driven and successful. I have good values.

My experiences with women are somewhat poor and limited. I’ve been treated poorly and kind of shrugged off. I’m tall and handsome too. Never had a relationship, or kissed.

It might sound weird but I’ve just kind of lost interest as well in finding someone. I’d much rather be alone these days.
After all this time 😂

No I don’t date and never will

No I’m not dating

Yes I am dating

I’m already in a relationship

[muscularbumblebee]

I’m not currently dating and haven’t dated in a few years now. That includes casual stuff and hookups but they aren’t really my thing anyway even if I’ve done them in the past.


I use to date quite a bit before but now don’t see the point unless I meet them in person and evaluate pro and cons maybe a date once a year. Main reason for this being it’s a waste of both my time and theirs as I don’t have the energy in getting to know someone well that’s new right now and that includes friendships too (that are very close) unless it’s really worth it and I want it focus on my goals, gym life, studies and work etc. I used to say I don’t have time but that’s a lie lol.


On the flip side if they dated me they would probably find out I would be interested very quickly at first then suddenly stop that’s how it usually was but I don’t play games anymore either and just like it be straight with people


Wish others could also be as straight as I am with them. -Looking for something long term and serious, not really actively looking. Sex is great. Lots of it. but I’m sceptical of others intentions before doing it. And so forth

[Kaamraj]

I am a decent looking man with a good career. In my country I can say that I am the top 5% of society. I do not date currently and for a long time. But I am not saying that I will never date. And the reason for that is the behavior of women in general. Women, due to social media, have an extremely inflated sense of sexual mean value (SMV). I find myself making 99 % of the effort when I am in courtship phase. Many times, I have thought to leave the attempt but then I didn't because I was in a scarcity mindset while she was in an abundance mindset. Meaning she had a lot more options than me. It was always like I got one word back for every ten I said, that is until I in said the wrong things and blew my chances. I don't blame myself for it because if you let someone talk for long enough, they are going to say something that might offend you.

As I aged and entered my 30s, the hormones took a backseat and thinking transferred from the little head to the big head. I saw all around how miserable married couples were and how cost of living was increasing. My friend (male) told me that his wife wanted him to buy a six-seater solid wood dinner table set when they were only two people. He had a good large coffee table that can easily seat two people face to face. I had sat there for many years and now his wife wanted him to throw that away. When we believed there was absolutely nothing wrong with the table. I ended up asking for it and he gladly gave it. It was like an old pet that no one wanted. Much like us men. Sorry for going on a tangent but as I am writing on the same table on my laptop it came to my mind.

[Oigit]

I don't date. Mostly because I'm not looking for a relationship. Also I started working on my issues and improving my life. Walked around for years dealing with my head being a huge mess. Now that it's a lot less of a mess, dating and relationships very much seem like more of a risk then anything. Because of all the crap that come from both.

[sage2021]

Boy, aren't you uppity about yourself? Gee's! No one deserves you? Ha! You are a conceded joke! Being handsome, successful and 6'2 doesn't mean jack sh*t if your personality sucks, and yours does. It's about more than height, looks, and $$$. Besides, when you marry a rich guy the woman EARNS EVERY PENNY! So, give yourself a kiss good night before you go to sleep tonight.

[UdontNeedtoknow]

Your the reason why this guy wants nothing to do with modern women. No woman earns or deserves a penny her boyfriend has earned through work. He will give what he thinks your love or lack of it has earned. Your attitude is a perfect example why men no longer want to marry.

[sage2021]

UdontNeedtoknow no, I am not the reason this guy doesn't seem to want a relationship. He is obviously into himself and wants to be without a relationship - asexual maybe? Some people just don't want to be in a relationship. Would you like a partner like him everyday in your life? I am not one of those women's libber's so you pegged me wrong. Don't try to lay a guilt trip for being the cause of him wanting and liking to be without a relationship. Maybe he just isn't so needy for one. Your totally wrong with your answer about me. Sounds like YOUR story, not his.

[Mess96]

No, not anymore as of a couple months ago. The last one was it. And I can relate. No guy wants to genuinely care about me, accept me, love me, or settle down with me. I don’t even know what it’s like for one to genuinely like me cuz I’ve never experienced that. It’s always narcissistic 🐷 that wanna get in my pants

[wheresmrcunnunglis]

Hm, not dating due to the pandem and once I feel comfortable doing so I don't know if I ever will. It just feels like a chore which is just my discreet way of saying Im not emotionally available to do so. So if I have an 'itch' I need to scratch ill just use the good ole apps while I keep working on building my career. Im trying to vacay as much as I financially can.

[Lionman95]

I don´t date because I don´t have the money to and I have too many problems of my own to be a safe harbor for another person. Sometimes I wish though that I could find a partner because it can be lonely if everybody is taken and you´re the only one single.

[Chlo3_2001]

I go on dates but not really 'dating.' I have close guy friends but I also work full time and have lots of health stuff in my life that makes it all very busy. Just be clear on what you are looking for and hoping to establish when you find someone. If you don't want that then don't.

[PhenomenalQueen]

I want to date, however, dating is ruined now… Most are offering the milk for free before the cow is bought. the reason why some guys don’t see a point in dating… Women are tired of community dick and men are tired of it being “their turn.” Or so it seems, so it’s like, what’s even the point in dating anymore? Nobody is just talking to get to know one person anyone, they’re trying he connected to multiple people at the same time, and playing mind games.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I wait 3 years before i feel like I know someone well enough to date them. I still have 90s couple mentality.

[PhenomenalQueen]

That makes a lot of sense.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Indeed, I just wish it was a more common view.

[PhenomenalQueen]

I agree with that because it would say a lot of heartbreak and frustration.

[TheSpaceGnome]

It would, but for some reason people think that they need to lose their virginity and get married before they even leave highschool these days, and I think in large part, it's because they are setting a low bar for expectations, so they think waiting will just result in being alone forever.

And if everyone thought that way, that would indeed be the case, but the thing is, if you marry or fuck the wrong person, and end up with an std or kids, then yeah, you're probably gonna be alone forever.

[PhenomenalQueen]

Yea that is very true because from what I’ve seen, you’re already at a disadvantage when you have kids.. You’ll be alone forever unless you find someone with lower standards than most.. it’s really sad… I wish I would’ve taken this more seriously and had someone who said what you’ve stated right now.. I should’ve waited, but sadly I didn’t. I allowed myself to be manipulated and deceived.

[MCheetah]

Option B. I gave up since only 10% of the most attractive and tall men are all women want, nowadays. Not to mention all the trannies, lesbians, and polyamorous trash sh*tting in an already foul dating pool. I'd very much like to be with someone, but I'd rather be single than be with a man, queer woman, or disgusting woman.

[Valso]

I'm not dating. It's pointless bc they're all gold diggers. Lately I find it more pleasant (and hell of a lot cheaper) to simply order a hooker to have sex with, instead of going out with a woman who will eventually use me as a source of money and will break my heart, if I let my guard down.

[serious_miss419]

You’re fine!
I don’t date. I see zero value or novelty in it.
It’s okay you’ve had poor experiences, maybe there’s a hidden message in those experiences.
I enjoy my freedom, no not to sleep around - but my actual freedom.
I’m a fantastic catch and a great person with a incredible outlook on life and can persevere through many things and never give up.
We aren’t obligated to be with someone. Enjoy your self and live your life I say and I do just that

[Heartache0405]

I stopped dating 7 years ago. Not because I don’t think women deserve me. But because I have too much self respect and these days, women my age are too selfish to give a man, any straight man like myself, any respect.

[RawIronhide]

Ya know I'm right there with you tbh! I think this is a good time to focus on polishing up your more unsavory qualities and to work on quality of life improvements. Beyond that I honestly don't think about at this point.

[Midnight_Kiss]

I've been single for over five years and attempting to date but I really dislike modern day dating as it too vanity based

[cth2188]

Agreed I left the dating scene because of how modern it is

[sehunsrijin]

I have never dated either.. I m more someone like admire someone from a distance. Maybe bcoz of people around me like my frds.. I am like there all time advicer so when I hear about reson for their fight I realise how complicated and time consuming this can be but for some it's going great. So it just about the person you are with... If u are lucky enough you get the right one at once if not then self love is the best..

[AdithyaR]

I have the opposite mindset of you. I don't date because I don't think I deserve someone. I'm no catch so there's no way someone's finding me attractive.
I've learnt to like my solitude.

[Apulu_3]

Currently I'm not dating of course because I am not looking for any relationships and I'm focused on turning my passion to career now.

[alexstorm]

I haven't met a woman whom I was interested in asking out on a date in about 10 years.

[IAMNathanael]

Nah, I like my loneliness. Nothing to frown at for me

[cth2188]

No I’ve been single 7 years by choice and dot have time for the headache of dating it’s stressful to date nowadays and complicated

[cth2188]

Dating is modem nowadays and I’m content being single

[Phoenix-gb]

I want to date, but no-one wants to date me it seems.

[Blonde401]

I’ve been single 7 years this year and I guess I’m gonna be like this for the rest of my life.

[xboxfan1213]

Can I ask you a question

[Blonde401]

What

[xboxfan1213]

Could you date a great man if he only has a average penis size

[DarkWinterNights]

Lmao. I’m sure that’s her problem with dating.

[Blonde401]

@DarkWinterNights haha right? 🙄

[Paul09]

Nope. Already impossible to find a match , to go on a date with. Dating has become so much more complex for nothing. It gets depressing. FML. I never wanted to be alone, but here I am.