Do you go on dates with yourself?

[Simslover92]

Yes I do.

No I don't.

[Valdemort]

Yup, I do most things with myself :)

[Valdemort]

Thanks for mho!

[Lilly1979]

Sure and take myself to spa.

[Lilly1979]

Thank You for MHO 🥂

[Finchie40]

I like to things on my own at times , but I don’t consider it dating myself lol , I do prefer having company but alone time is nice as well, especially when I go fishing , or getting a bite to eat , or trying something new I always wanted to try or go see, if no one wants to go with me , I don’t let that stop me from going , Not everyone likes everything that I like. just like I don’t like everything that someone else likes as well. I will even go to concerts by myself or a movie by myself , if it’s something I really enjoy and don’t want to miss. I even traveled by myself to see a band I really enjoy , I consider myself very social so I usually meet people to chat with so I am not that lonely lol

[HawkPerception]

Meh... it's overrated. I spend most of my time by myself. I kick a soccer ball against the wall and workout to stay in shape. I watch movies and shows alone. I journal. Once in a blue moon I go to eat out alone. I spend 99% of my time alone. I'd rather go on a date with a girl. I love my space, but when I go out, I'd prefer to share the experience with a partner or date.

[AviatorTom]

My wife and I are individuals, as well as a couple. Occadionally, she or I will do something on our own. Most common is seeing a movie that the other one doesn't want to see, so we go alone.

[LiaRaven]

Never done that, but I might do it

[Predetor]

I would like to join you

[LiaRaven]

@Predetor are you blind, read the question

[HawkPerception]

@LiaRaven Read his name. Sound it out

[LiaRaven]

@HawkPerception
Predator That’s not a dude, that’s a red flag in motion lol

[HawkPerception]

@LiaRaven 😂😂😂

[LiaRaven]

@HawkPerception lol 😂

[Shiprex]

Would I say a date? Never thought of it like that @Simslover92 but now that I think about it I tend to do just that sometimes. Normally later in the evening about once a week I will be on my way back from somewhere be it the gym or a sports activity and just not have the mojo to want to cook if there's nothing in the house so a wee break from the drag takes me off to the fast food places on the way home for something with chips. I am only glad there are no "Chip shops" like the ones from my home country where I am now otherwise I would be much closer to blocked arteries and heart disease and would find far more excuses to "not be bothered cooking".

[Anonymous]

Honestly that’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard. I think people, especially women, try to come up w terms or phrases to make theirselves feel better about their situations. Do I enjoy being alone? Yes. Do I enjoy doing things by myself? Yes. But no I’m not dating myself. Sounds just like a way of coping.

[Simslover92]

I don't date myself. I was just asking the question because it's on social media. I don't think it's stupid for some people. Some people need that to practice self love. My therapist wanted me to go on dates with myself but I just didn't think it was for me. But for others it may be. Don't be so judgmental.

[Opinion Owner]

Please explain how you’re supposed to date yourself?

[Simslover92]

Go out to a movie or dinner or bowling by yourself.

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t get how that’s dating yourself? Again sounds like a coping mentality to soften the reality that one is single. A lot of men honor on their own, but we don’t need to come up w some terminology to make ourselves better. This seems to come more so from women. Like Galentine’s day.

[Simslover92]

You're probably right. My therapist is a woman and told me I should go on a date by myself while I was still single. I said fuck that. I'm just going to find someone on Hinge to go on a date with lol and I did lol. And now we're together.

[Opinion Owner]

That’s great. I don’t understand what this dating yourself is supposed to do. Like you’re finding yourself or something. I don’t think most women make good therapist. I think a lot of women give each other bad advice. Men will tell you if you just ask a dude for advice. But you can’t get mad if he’s honest w you. That’s why men aren’t really honest w women because they can’t handle the truth. But I’m glad you met someone. Fuck dating yourself, date someone see where it goes from there.

[Lucy68]

I do a lot of things by myself but the takin myslef on a date I have been meaning to do. I did however spent Valentine's Day with myself, I ordered some wings from my favorite wing place, bought some chocolate covered strawberries for myself, and watched COPS

[BCRanger10]

No. I mean... I want to ask myself out, but... but... but I don't know what I'd say. What if I say "no"? What if I'm a jerk? I've got this classic playing in my head whenever I think about it...

https://www.youtube.com/embed/lNwN0iHbos4

[7Phoenix7]

Yeah, I love my own company. Free to think and do as I please without worry.

My friend took me to see a musical this weekend. Then we went to eat...

If he wasn't in the way id probably had gone straight home and ate alone loll talking to myself and all 😂

[OneViewpoint]

Do I go out solo for drinks and dinner. Yeah, that's my usual. Am I dating myself? Uh, no. I'm just grabbing a meal and a few drinks in a public place to get out of the house. Maybe I end up talking to a few people to kill some time. Maybe I meet someone who's actually interesting.

[genericname85]

it's not a date if you're by yourself xD. i mean a date is pretty much defined as a "social meeting between 2 people". but i get what your mean. taking yourself out to enjoy things that typcially people enjoy together. and yeah sometimes i do that but not a lot.

[Billlewis]

No, but I frequently date women vicariously, by paying for their dates with other men, and fantasizing about how intensely pleasurable it is for the guy when he's enjoying physical intimacy with her.

[Anonymous]

I dare you to find a man who post a question like this. He knows he would be ridiculed (as you should be). You don’t go on “dates” with thin air.

[Simslover92]

Tell my therapist that.

[Opinion Owner]

@simslover92 therapists don’t always give you good therapy.

[Simslover92]

I know. I take what they say with a grain of salt a lot of the times but some of it has helped.

[Zack-Bann]

Nah my other personalities would be jealous
Especially if that date leads to a “happy ending” ;)


No but seriously I’m not a fan of the concept:
Self love is great but a solo date is a cope.
It’s depressing to me
Like I should be on a date with someone but here I am sitting in silence which is already most of my routine life as I live alone and have for nearly 5 years now


I prefer company whenever I can get it

[sage2021]

I have been divorced since 1990 so it never bothered me to get dressed up and go to a Comedy Club by myself because it's great entertainment. I would go out to restaurants as well. Never bothered me.

[Anonymous]

I Am Married, However Due To My Wife And I Having Somewhat Opposite Schedules And Her Needing To Travel To Seminars Every So Often… I Go On A Date With Myself, It Might Start With Dinner, A Movie, A Walk Along The Beach… It’s Nice To Go On Dates With Myself… Because Dates With My Wife End With Us Having Sex, Dates With Myself End With Sex With Myself…

[Opinion Owner]

The Question Is Not About Dating Yourself Because You’re Single… It’s About Going Out To Dinner Alone, Treating Yourself To Something Nice That You Deserve, Also Known As Going Out On A Date With Yourself, Whether Single, In A Relationship Or Married…

[L_Lawliet17]

I go bowling by myself. It feels weird, but I like bowling. If I had a boyfriend, I'd love to have a bowling date.

[Miristheiss]

I was a jerk the last time. I wouldn't stop texting while I was trying to have a conversation. So rude.

[katiesmuff]

By myself!!! Hardly get the time to go on a date with my husband, just him and I.

[NicholasRedone]

@Simslover92 for as long as I think back to throughout my adult years yes 😂😆 I enjoy my own treats, my own cafe trips

[Gwendoline]

No that would be crazy. At most i might get a milkshake by myself

[Lynx122]

I do things by myself but don't think of it as a date XD

[FreyaRed]

I make sometimes shows but I wouldn't call it dates.

[Joshydavid25]

Well, I mean I go places with myself, but I don't know if I wanna call them dates.. With myself... Especially as a man.. LOL..

[beenherebefore]

I wouldn't call it go on dates with myself. To me is just going out to eat by myself LOL.

[nawtee_me]

I don’t think of it as a date but I do go out to eat by myself.

[nawtee_me]

@Simslover92 I do not mind my own company. I kind of like me … What about you?

[Godihateyou]

Lol. I've been married for almost 20 years all of my dates are with myself.

[littleracecar7]

My husband can't ever decide what to eat or if he wants to go anywhere. Or where to park. So I go by myself.

[Jltakk]

I have no other choice unfortunately. I'm also a terrible date.

[Anonymous]

Sure, I have no other choice, no girl wants to date me (or at least no girl that I like).

[Amily_zen]

A lot.. infact sometimes i take posters of female celebs and make a date out of it

[NathanDavis]

no... I just go out, lo

[molonski2]

No I haven't but I love the idea..

[BobbieBoy666]

Even movie dates.

[lilBigPotato]

Not really my thing

[Nikki1989]

Nope. I am rarely alone.

[exitseven]

Yes, and i always have sex after as well.

[talka20]

No i treat myself w things but not go to date

[FunkyMonkee]

Nobody else will!

[DrPepper12]

No but that's a fantastic idea!! 😁😜

[Monica04]

I do go get pampered.

[LiamJHayden]

I go out solo.

[Likes2drive]

Yeah I’ve done it sometimes

[Zoe91]

Yes and my other half pays for it.

[hello4433]

Yes, it's nice and peaceful

[hello4433]

Do you do it too?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes nobody treats me better than me

[Anonymous]

Nah, just Netflix and chill.😆

[WhitneySnow]

Yes!

[Texasgal95]

Sometimes

[jazzy34]

All the time. 😊

[loveyouoak]

No I don't.

[Usemisc]

No thank you

[eagle1951]

all the time

[jahaims]

That's not a date