Why did he ask me out finally after I hinted at wanting to take things forward ( we has already chatting for a long time) ?

[Anonymous]

Is it because he wasn’t really that interested in me?

I first hinted at taking things off the app (we were chatting on Instagram before that for months ). After that he started to talk about calling me and he asked me out for coffee (all in the same message). I said that yes I would like to meet him for coffee and also gave him my number.

It’s funny how we just chatted for a long time but he only asked me out after I hinted at taking things further….

[spartan55]

Why is that funny? You don't think you need to show any interest?

[Wise4myage]

He finally realized you were being serious.

[Asker]

Serious in what way?

[Wise4myage]

As in dating.

[Asker]

So he thought I really wasn’t feeling him like that? Doesn’t that show that he was insecure in that case?

[Wise4myage]

That's possible.