When a guy says hurtful things when he’s mad, is it how he actually feels?

[Anonymous]

I told this guy I talk to no to helping him with something and that I’m done with his lies and him…. and he got really mad… And started calling me a bunch of mean things/attacking my appearance…. It’s not the first time he’s done this either.. so I just got sick of it all.. Last weekend when I had opened up and told him it made me insecure he had told me I’m beautiful and he says things when he’s mad.. But At this point when he says mean things, I believe that’s how he actually feels….

[Xhuy_006]

Regardless he's a douchebag for sinking that low. Like I get lashing out, but degrading someone is intentionally hurtful. Red flags

[spartan55]

Who cares if he means it, feels it, whatever? Bottom line he is an asshole who openly insults you.

[one1wild00]

No, it's probably the anger that triggered any mean thing he could say, a lot of guys will regret what they say out of anger later.

[boggboss]

To some degree he has felt that way yes