An old flame and I recently reconnected after six months of absolute silence. We had gotten in a fight and he ended up yelling at me and saying he didn't care about me at all. He called me on my birthday six months later and said he missed me, he thought about me a lot, and he asked me for a second chance. He promised me he was different, and that he'd make the effort to prove that I could trust him. He was calling me every night, he was more affectionate than he had ever been, and he was already talking about us still being together next summer. Two weeks later, we had a stupid misunderstanding that was my fault. I apologized immediately, and after a few heated text exchanges, he said "okay, I'll talk to you later." I waited two days to let him cool off before I called to apologize again and explain myself. I didn't raise my voice at all, but he was screaming at me by the end of the phone call. He said I had been "sh*tty" with him, that he "didn't need my drama," and this reunion was "clearly not going to happen" before he hung up on me. It's been two weeks of stone cold silence. He told me that the last time we fought and he said he didn't care about me, he was just angry. He said, "I'm a big pussy. I'm all talk. Of course I care about you. I was just mad." So I don't know if he's still just mad this time, or if he's serious about cutting me out again. I can't believe I went from the girl he couldn't get out of his head to the demanding bitch he can't stand overnight. It doesn't add up. Did I call him too soon? Is there anything I can do now to salvage this, or is it too late? Guys, I would especially appreciate your input!
Do guys mean what they say when they're angry?
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