How do I stop guys being nervous around me because of my looks?

[Anonymous]

I like to present myself well - not full glam but I like to have a bit of sexyness in my day-to-day get up, to look nice; have my hair nails done etc. I also go to the gym a lot. In a lot of places I get lots of attention.

The problem is the majority of guys can't speak normally to me sometimes. They shift around, don't know what to say, and are just not natural! I just want to be able to have normal conversation with guys where I don't make them nervous. This is who I am, this is the way I dress - how do I get guys to just interact normally with me?

[Anonymous]

It’s probably never going to happen. You’re attractive. Attractive women make men nervous. Likely the ones who aren’t nervous are the confident bastards who you will no doubt be incompatible with in the long run. You’ll either generalize all men to be this way, or you’ll get jaded and give up on dating entirely.

[Anonymous]

impossible, only solution is to not dress sexy, then they can relax, because our brain is in our penis, so dressing in sexy clothes mean we can't think properrly, all we can hear is our penis jumping up and screaming at us

[Opinion Owner]

dress sexy or normal its ur choice

[EmmaMary]

Perhaps try not to look too high a maintenance, and do a check on your personality.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[UniquelyBasic]

Just be friendly and smile. Act like yourself and guys are going to be nervous no matter what.