Started talking to a single dad not too long ago (friendly) and he talks about his son a lot and even hinted if I wanted to meet him one day? Why?

[Anonymous]

He talks about him a lot, asks me if I’d like to meet home whenever I’m ready, tells me if I want to join one of his family gatherings one day to meet his siblings and me he’s only talking to me. What does this mean? Keep in mind he’s never asked me to be his girlfriend or anything. We just talk every day.

[Mori_Girl]

He’s probably trying to gauge the longevity of a possible relationship between the two of you. His son will always be first priority and is most likely looking for someone that can understand that and can be a good fit for not just him but his son as well. It’s a very important piece of the relationship that needs to be given great consideration not just on his end but yours as well. No one wants to intentionally hurt anyone but if relationship with a kid in it is an absolute no go you should make that clear from the beginning. Otherwise you can just take it slowly if it’s new territory for you.

[Stevefiveo]

He wants you. He is just taking it slow and seeing if you are interested also.

[DarkWinterNights]

A guy looking for hookups typically isn’t going to want you to meet his kids.

[Asker]

Interesting. What are the chances that men do this with every girl?

[DarkWinterNights]

Depends on what kind of father he is. It’s generally advised against single parents always bringing new partners around young kids as it can be confusing for them.

[Iron_Man]

That’s good but the ultimate test is don’t give it up and if he sticks around it means he cares