Meeting my boyfriend of 2 years dad?

[Anonymous]

Hi, any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I am 22 (f) and my boyfriend 24 (m) have been together for 2 years. I am meeting his dad for the first time and we are going to a football game. I have never met any partners parents before and I’m so scared. Should I bring something? Do I go in for a hug? Shake hands? Or do I just play it by ear? I don’t want to come off as rude! Any advice would be helpful.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man, meeting the parents is always freaky no matter what! I wouldn't worry too much though, just be your usual awesome self and his dad is sure to love you.

As for what to do when you meet, I'd say go for a handshake to start - that's usually the safe bet. And maybe bring something small like aHostess snack cake pack or chips to share during the game. Guys always love snacks!

Compliment his dad on his team if they're winning too. Talk about how long they've been fans. Most dads just want to know their son has found a cool girl who supports their family's interests, you know?

You've got this! Just be polite, ask him questions about himself too so he can see how interested you are in getting to know them better. And I'm sure your boyfriend will help ease any awkwardness. Deep breaths, you'll do great! Let me know how it goes!

[Iron_Man]

Be honest, be calm, talk from the heart, be upbeat, and polite

[SueShe]

There is nothing better than to be yourself. Simply, don't overdo it because it would indicate that you are uncomfortable meeting him. Also, never ask personal questions that would place him in an awkward situation. It would just create unnecessary tension.

Your boyfriend must have talked about you to him and given him a fairly good description on your character and personality. At least I hope he did after being with you for 2 years. Also, he must have given you some information about his dad as well.

If you are an outgoing person and his dad seems to be a cool person, then you can give him a hug. That would reinforce the impression he received from you. If on the other hand you are the more reserved person, then a handshake will do. Good luck.

[SueShe]

thanks for the MHO

[Nikki1989]

Do what comes natural to you. Don't force anything.

[Lokiion]

Shake hands and act normally