Have you ever found it difficult to make contact with opposite gender? what do you think what were reasons? attraction? feelings? lust? shyness?

[Anonymous]

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*eye contact

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it's eye contact not contact just.

[HighlyVolatile]

Not so much but here in Japan, it's considered very rude to do that:

Yet I've spent enough time in the US that I've learned to become used to it when speaking to people outside of Japan.

[HighlyVolatile]

When I first went to the US, I had a very difficult time though. Some people even thought I must be a dishonest person because I didn't look them in the eye. Yet that's just Japanese etiquette and custom. We are encouraged not to make prolonged eye contact.

[Anonymous]

Yeah usually shyness and fear of rejection