Are you shy around the gender you are attracted to?

Msputiton

Guru Age: 24

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The_Shadow_Dweller Follow
Yoda Age: 25 , mho 30%

+1 y

I am not shy. But the thing is, I just do not feel like talking with the opposite gender, specifically, without any solid reason.
Although I, unknown, to many was actually shy aroind girls qhen i was younger. But after I asked a girl out (got rejected lol), I bece a lot bolder than before.
But now, I do not prefer to talk not because I am shy, but because I just do not prefer to.🤷‍♂️

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- The_Shadow_Dweller
  
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  Sorry, lots of typos are there.😄 I hope you got what I said.
  
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LikeALog Follow
Yoda Age: 39 , mho 53%

+1 y

No, I'm not shy around women. I actually find it easier to have a conversation with a woman I just met than with a guy I just met. I guess it's because women will remember something tangential and somewhat move the conversation in a different direction which keeps it interesting and keep us talking. Guys seem to have tunnel vision and the topic gets boring to me.

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letuswaltzforthedead Follow
Yoda Age: 21 , mho 58%

+1 y

I can be, especially if I like them. It would be much harder for me to strike up a conversation with someone I like, especially in person.

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melanieeeB Follow
InfluencerGuru Age: 32

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No not anymore, are you?🤔

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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  Naw. Not at all.
  
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- melanieeeB
  
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  That's good! Hah
  
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- Msputiton
  
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  Yeah. Tbh i flirt a lot
  
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- melanieeeB
  
  +1 y
  Lmaooo love that!
  
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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  Me too
  
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Wish4UrB00ty Follow
Explorer Age: 36 , mho 38%

+1 y

No just around girls I am attracted to. If I don’t have something to start with I can’t open conversation and all too often I find I can’t think of anything except how good they look… or something else too stupid to admit to… 😜😂😂

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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  Shesh
  
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- Wish4UrB00ty
  
  +1 y
  😂😂 I know it’s really lame! I can stick up conversations with just about anyone. But around a girl I’m attracted to… I’m useless.
  
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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  Your in your head too much
  
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- Wish4UrB00ty
  
  +1 y
  All day long
  
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xJeremyx Follow
Xper 6 Age: 25

+1 y

I definitely am. While I can carry on a conversation or discussion without issues (I happen to be good at masking nervousness and shyness), I just do not feel as comfortable as when I am talking to a bunch of dudes. Dont get me wrong though, I still do enjoy hanging out with females as well. The discomfort fades after awhile.

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TheSpaceGnome Follow
Master Age: 39

+1 y

Unfortunately, no. Even when I'm out, there are very few women around, and most of them are seniors or middle aged moms.

Everyone says there are other fish in the sea, but I think the stock is gone in my area.

To date, I would need to find her online, and either move, or move her to me, I've got no other options at this point.

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NathanDavis Follow
Master Age: 35 , mho 33%

+1 y
671 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

not now, not anymore... but I was excruciatingly shy as a kid and young teen, lol

but not at all nowadays, no reason to either

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- Msputiton
  
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  Glad you grew out of it
  
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- u
  
  NathanDavis
  
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  me too... got tired of running away from teen girls chasing me when I was a little kid
  
  they really liked to terrify me like that, lmao
  
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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  🤣🤣that's hilarious
  
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- u
  
  NathanDavis
  
  +1 y
  that was actually my first sport... age five to six
  
  running away and dodging, lol
  
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- Msputiton
  
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  🤣🤣 aww. That's kinda cute
  
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Jaximus-Lion Follow
Guru Age: 41 , mho 31%

+1 y

No! Not any more. I broke the habit about 17 years ago. I accepted it's alright to weird things to get over the she feeling, i did mistakes and learned a lot and the habit is gone. Now! I just talk to them and have fun

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Weapon77 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 30 , mho 47%

+1 y

Most of the time, no. But I do get shy or weird around girls I'm attracted to. Maybe it's why I've been single for 7 years 🤷‍♂️ I'd love to be less shy and more confident, but I don't know how.

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TrueConfection Follow
Guru Age: 50 , mho 45%

+1 y

Yes, but I do my best to fake not being shy.

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Tina19 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 31

+1 y

I am just shy around the guy i am attracted to because i know he likes me too but he thinks i didn't notice when he hides behind the gate or soke tree just to look at me whenever i visit the garden

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Fuentes Follow
Master Age: 34

+1 y
456 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

When I was younger younger now I am not at all

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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  I think most people were when younger because we had no clue what we were doing
  
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- Fuentes
  
  +1 y
  Yes I figured it out the hard way and bad a kid early lol
  
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- Fuentes
  
  +1 y
  Had*
  
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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  True.
  
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Dan_cColt Follow
Xper 4 Age: 26

+1 y

If I'm attracted to her then I'm a little shy like anybody else cause you constantly have to keep the convo 'interesting' but not if I'm not attracted to the girl..

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matchrestore Follow
Guru Age: 39 , mho 44%

+1 y

I'm attracted to both genders, so I can't afford to be shy around them!

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exitseven Follow
Master Age: 55

+1 y
499 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

I used to be very shy. I was so shy that even if I knew a girl liked me I was still too afraid to make a move.

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MendaciousMarxist Follow
Xper 5 Age: 34 , mho 32%

+1 y

you are young, I bet you attract all the boys likes bees to honey. 😂

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mstbooblover Follow
Yoda Age: 72

+1 y

When I was young, yes, I was shy in a silly way. Not at all anymore.

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humanearth Follow
Master Age: 58

+1 y

Nope, I'll walk right up to them
No fear

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CloudMassacre Follow
Yoda Age: 30

+1 y

Overall yes, but I don’t feel as shy with my friends

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Twalli Follow
Master Age: 35

+1 y

Not as much as I used to be, and it was primarily girls I was attracted to that I was nervous around.

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Charliefretz329 Follow
Guru Age: 43

+1 y

Sometimes definitely, especially if she’s crazy hot.

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- Charliefretz329
  
  +1 y
  I’d be shy around you in person
  
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LordOfThePines Follow
Xper 5 Age: 36

+1 y

Not anymore, my job has pushed shyness out of me.

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mandyfire98 Follow
Master Age: 28 , mho 42%

+1 y

I'm not, I flirt more usually.

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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  Lmao same.
  Ps: constantly use the pp jump rope joke on here now thanks to you🤣
  
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- mandyfire98
  
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  Hahaha it's quite the mental image isn't it? It's sad because there's apparently a bunch of guys who actually believe that they have to pack a fire hose to get the job done.
  
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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  I know crazy right
  
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- mandyfire98
  
  +1 y
  Weiner obsession
  
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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  Exactly there some guy on here dyin to know who got a bigger pp.
  Shaq yao ming or Kevin hart.
  Like really this what keeps ya up at night 🤣
  
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- mandyfire98
  
  +1 y
  Hahahaha what a random ass selection. 🤣🤣
  
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- Msputiton
  
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  I know.🤣 i thought the same thing.
  
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Cedman Follow
Xper 4 Age: 31

+1 y

Sometimes it depends on the day as I have highs and lows,

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bigpauly Follow
Explorer Age: 31

+1 y

In real life, yes

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- Msputiton
  
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  Aww.
  
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- bigpauly
  
  +1 y
  🫣🫣
  
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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  What?
  
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- bigpauly
  
  +1 y
  Being shy
  
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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  It's cute
  
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- Blackcupcake
  
  +1 y
  cutie Pauly hahaha
  
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- Msputiton
  
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  @Blackcupcake 🤣🤣such a little cutie pie
  
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- Blackcupcake
  
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  @msputiton lmfao🤣🤣
  
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- Msputiton
  
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  @Blackcupcake 🤣🤣🤣
  
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- bigpauly
  
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  I’m glad you guys are having fun 😒😂
  
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- Blackcupcake
  
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  @bigpauly it really is cute!!! hahahaha
  
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- bigpauly
  
  +1 y
  @Blackcupcake 🫣🫣🫣
  
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sirderpsalot123 Follow
Guru Age: 28

+1 y

No, just awkward at times.

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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  Aww..
  
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- sirderpsalot123
  
  +1 y
  Don't do that 😒
  
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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  Why? It's cute
  
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dustybiker Follow
Master Age: 48 , mho 41%

+1 y

Noooo. 😁

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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  Yay!
  
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whereismyjohnny Follow
Guru Age: 23 , mho 32%

+1 y

I'm pretty shy around everyone lol.

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Apulu_Imback Follow
Explorer Age: 17 , mho 41%

+1 y

I am shy around everyone I don't know well.

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EmmaMary Follow
Master Age: 33 , mho 37%

+1 y
349 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

No, absolutely not.

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Nikki1989 Follow
Mentor Age: 37 , mho 31%

+1 y
1.9K opinions shared on Flirting topic.

No, not at all.

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weysally Follow
Guru Age: 54 , mho 48%

+1 y

no way, a bit slow to start with

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Blackcupcake Follow
Guru Age: 25

+1 y

nope lmfao

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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  That's because you too sexy to be shook
  
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- Blackcupcake
  
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  hahaha not as sexy as you tho😍
  
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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  I know who i am.
  I'm cute. Not sexy.
  And I'm fine with being cute
  
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- Blackcupcake
  
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  awwwww I love that!
  
  I always say I’m a shapeshifter… lmfao. I know I can be both, everything in between and a lot more… depending on my mood🤣
  
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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  Yes you can🥰
  So much sexy cuteness. All rolled up in one cupcake of perfection.
  Let me stop before i got slap the pervs
  
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- Blackcupcake
  
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  lmfao… thanks twin, I’ll send you names if any pervs need to be slapped🥰
  
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- Msputiton
  
  +1 y
  Ok let me get my slappin hand warmed up
  
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- Blackcupcake
  
  +1 y
  hahahaha
  
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iceprincess8 Follow
Xper 3 Age: 25

+1 y

Nah, most of my friends are guys

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Pink2000 Follow
Master Age: 26

+1 y
393 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

No not at all

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loveslongnails Follow
Master Age: 40

+1 y
389 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Absolutely NOT !!!

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Sparkie460 Follow
Guru Age: 58

+1 y

I was never shy around anyone.

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Pete671 Follow
Guru Age: 58

+1 y

Yes but I put on an act,,,

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Truthfullguy Follow
Xper 3 Age: 36

+1 y

Yes & it sucks

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Midgetmcwidget Follow
Explorer Age: 38 , mho 34%

+1 y

No only a guy.

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LazerBean Follow
Master Age: 26 , mho 41%

+1 y

Nope.

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Agape93 Follow
Master Age: 34

+1 y
335 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Nope not even a bit

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eagle1951 Follow
Master Age: 74

+1 y
509 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

very to this day

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MadKez Follow
Xper 5 Age: 29

+1 y

No I am not. The opposite

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MLGbreezy Follow
Yoda Age: 27

+1 y

Unfortunately

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JPresidente Follow
Yoda Age: 55

+1 y

Nope.

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Jennz6 Follow
Master Age: 37

+1 y

Yes I am

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TroyDT2 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 31

+1 y

Nope.

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collie22 Follow
Guru Age: 25

+1 y

Not really

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LavLavLuv Follow
Master Age: 27

+1 y

Nopee

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Lizz2004 Follow
Xper 2 Age: 109

+1 y

Not shy at all

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jayhams Follow
Xper 5 Age: 34

+1 y

Nope.

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Kareem_z21 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 26

+1 y

Yes I am

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SnowedIn Follow
Master Age: 52 , mho 37%

+1 y

Not a bit.

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TallAnon Follow
Master Age: 30

+1 y
366 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Nope

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Amur8711 Follow
Guru Age: 33

+1 y

Yes! I hate it. 😒

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kareka Follow
Yoda Age: 29

+1 y

Nope

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