I am not shy. But the thing is, I just do not feel like talking with the opposite gender, specifically, without any solid reason.
Although I, unknown, to many was actually shy aroind girls qhen i was younger. But after I asked a girl out (got rejected lol), I bece a lot bolder than before.
But now, I do not prefer to talk not because I am shy, but because I just do not prefer to.🤷♂️
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No, I'm not shy around women. I actually find it easier to have a conversation with a woman I just met than with a guy I just met. I guess it's because women will remember something tangential and somewhat move the conversation in a different direction which keeps it interesting and keep us talking. Guys seem to have tunnel vision and the topic gets boring to me.
I can be, especially if I like them. It would be much harder for me to strike up a conversation with someone I like, especially in person.
No not anymore, are you?🤔
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No just around girls I am attracted to. If I don’t have something to start with I can’t open conversation and all too often I find I can’t think of anything except how good they look… or something else too stupid to admit to… 😜😂😂
I definitely am. While I can carry on a conversation or discussion without issues (I happen to be good at masking nervousness and shyness), I just do not feel as comfortable as when I am talking to a bunch of dudes. Dont get me wrong though, I still do enjoy hanging out with females as well. The discomfort fades after awhile.
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not now, not anymore... but I was excruciatingly shy as a kid and young teen, lol
but not at all nowadays, no reason to either Unfortunately, no. Even when I'm out, there are very few women around, and most of them are seniors or middle aged moms.
Everyone says there are other fish in the sea, but I think the stock is gone in my area.
To date, I would need to find her online, and either move, or move her to me, I've got no other options at this point.No! Not any more. I broke the habit about 17 years ago. I accepted it's alright to weird things to get over the she feeling, i did mistakes and learned a lot and the habit is gone. Now! I just talk to them and have fun
Most of the time, no. But I do get shy or weird around girls I'm attracted to. Maybe it's why I've been single for 7 years 🤷♂️ I'd love to be less shy and more confident, but I don't know how.
Yes, but I do my best to fake not being shy.
I am just shy around the guy i am attracted to because i know he likes me too but he thinks i didn't notice when he hides behind the gate or soke tree just to look at me whenever i visit the garden
When I was younger younger now I am not at all
If I'm attracted to her then I'm a little shy like anybody else cause you constantly have to keep the convo 'interesting' but not if I'm not attracted to the girl..
I'm attracted to both genders, so I can't afford to be shy around them!
I used to be very shy. I was so shy that even if I knew a girl liked me I was still too afraid to make a move.
you are young, I bet you attract all the boys likes bees to honey. 😂
When I was young, yes, I was shy in a silly way. Not at all anymore.
Nope, I'll walk right up to them
No fear
Overall yes, but I don’t feel as shy with my friends
Not as much as I used to be, and it was primarily girls I was attracted to that I was nervous around.
Sometimes definitely, especially if she’s crazy hot.
Not anymore, my job has pushed shyness out of me.
I'm not, I flirt more usually.
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