Older men - how would you feel if a woman 20 years younger than you expressed interest in you?

[Anonymous]

First of all I NEVER expected to fall for this man.
He is Single.
We work for the same company but are in different offices so we don’t actually work together.

I have known him for 5 years and recently out of nowhere I started to develop all these feelings for him and I’m so nervous to even let it show that I like him that way!

I tried to distance myself from him and move on and even date other people but that didn’t work.

I don’t know if he would even ever think of me that way.

I’m not after his money I have my own.

He’s just a really great man and I’m terrified I creep him out if he gets the sense that I’m into him!

[WonderBell99]

As long as both of you are legal adults, it shouldn’t matter. Maybe in terms of compatibility, it may, but do whatever works for you.

Firstly, you have to recognize that both of you are at different stages in life. It may or may not work out.. that’s secondary, but if you’re willing to put in the extra effort and work something out, the relationship can last long.

He will only be creeped out if you express your feelings for him in public, in front of everyone else.. do it somewhere there aren’t many people around. Like a cafe or something.

be straightforward, don’t be nervous and just shoot your shot. He may be reluctant because of the age difference, but eh it’s best to shoot your shot and get to know how he feels about you rather than hiding your feelings and regretting it later

[Chris008976]

It happened to me once on Gag a few years ago.
This 20 year old Arab woman from Paris started sending me messages. She wanted to sext because of some answer I had given in the Sexuality section. At first I resisted and tried to avoid that, but eventually she wore me down. We were really good at coming up with different sexual scenarios and turning each other on. She said that we're both crazy. We started to bond and get emotionally attached. She told her mother that she had met someone and when she told her my age, her mother said that she would cut my nuts off with her kitchen knife. LoL!
Eventually she met a guy her own age and ghosted me, so that was that and I went back to talking to women in their 40's.

[Anonymous]

That happened to me recently, but she's had those COVID 'vaccines' so I'd never go there. She was attractive but I prefer to be single... freedom. I look about half my age so it's something I expect to happen but I find older women more attractive for the most part.

[20yearsolder]

I'm 55, I would be flattered. I would also be very into the thought of it. Go for it, worst thing he can say is that he's not interested. But if you don't go for it you'll always wonder

[bamesjond0069]

Im 16 years older than my girlfriend. Nbd. Tbh it makes little difference if you're a good match you're a good match.

[worldscolide]

I would be flattered but I would put a stop to it as I am married.

[2021biguy]

I would be happy if we both cared about each other.

[Anonymous]

I'd just laugh because I'd know she was just teasing.

[FunkyMonkee]

Fucking great!!