Men aged 45+ how would you feel about a 30 year old being interested in you?

[Anonymous]

I met an older man through work who I like a lot. He’s great, single and really nice/friendly.
He is 49 and he’s very attractive and we get along very well.

I’ve always been attracted to older men but I’ve never pursued a relationship with a guy anymore than 5 years older than me.

My two exes were only a few years older than me but I’ve always been very attracted to older men compared to men my age.

Now that I’m single and I’m nearly 30 I’m like f*#k it but I don’t want to freak him out - can I make it obvious I like him without saying it? I don’t know what to do and I feel scared and awkward but my feelings aren’t going anywhere. Every time I see him I get butterflies.

We do have flirty banter between us but nothing more than a few compliments here and there, teasing, touching, texting…

[Anonymous]

Although I’m a year away from 45 I’m closer to to 45 then I am to 40 lol I wouldn’t see an issue w it. So long as we got along, liked sone similarities w our differences in what we like. I think it’s always good when two people have different interest, I just may end up liking certain things she does myself. Honestly I would t be looking to be a crutch for a lady who is struggling as a single mother. Because really does she want someone cause she’s really into him or because she’s struggling financially, mentally as a single parent? Now if she’s too immature for me as far as still wanting to go clubbing, than I may not work for me. I could go out to a bar or something like that. But I like being at home, fixing up my house, shooting range, movies, dinner, sporting events.

[MTC29]

I'd be fine with it, particularly if the younger lady just wanted to hang out, have fun and enjoy my company. If things were to turn more serious... that is another story.

[oldermale]

I would like that.

[one1wild00]

Sure, why not.

[dudeinohio]

Nah... too young.