Does he love her?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend cheated on me, and I found out he’s been sleeping with her for 2 years.. (we started dating a few months ago so before I knew him) I saw messages of them arguing too (she was telling him to leave her alone and stop showing up at her house).. he says he doesn’t care about her, she’s crazy and that he wants to be with me.. But then I found out he is always talking about her to his friends, sometimes he will talk bad about her and other times he will say nice things to them about her.. I asked his friend about her (I probably shouldn’t have but…his friend knows her and has hung around them) He told me that he thinks he loves her based off of how he acts when it comes to her… But if he really does love her why not be with her… He’s been cheating with her since we got together.…

[Anonymous]

Seems like it's bc the other girl doesn't really wanna be with him, since you mentioned seeing messages of her telling him to leaver her alone. She might only want to sleep with him without wanting to actually be with him, I think you need to dump him. Don't let him just use you as a second option

[spartan55]

Why not be with her? Tf kind of logic is that? Is there something stopping YOU from breaking up with him? You have agency here as well. Have some dignity and self respect. He is making you look like an idiot.

[jimmy2]

Ohh my move on he will not quite

[flirtatiousgirl]

Leave him