Is he in love with her?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of 11 years is emotionally connected to another women. He talks about being with her one day. Is he really going to leave me?

[Summeroflove]

I would say you need to leave him. If he’s wanting someone else. Then it’s time to break it off. At least for the time being. Emotional cheating is cheating and it can get worse. Until either he leaves or chests

[Anonymous]

Yes 11 years not married your just the till I find better girl. He found better and is changing over.

If that is the only info we get?

[Asker]

He spends a lot of time with her. I caught messages that he meets up with her. But they’re not having sex because he says he still with me.

[Opinion Owner]

Did you see that in messages or just what he says in public?

[Asker]

Both

[Opinion Owner]

Hm well maybe he is waiting so she won't be pissed? But yeah when he is ready probably so leaving you.
Or wants a work wife?

[Asker]

Yes in the messages he’s told her that because he’s in a relationship he cannot have sex with her. Because of how they’re connected he knows that if he does he’s going to feel they are together and he knows that’s not right because of his situation

It hurts me to know that he’s calling out relationship a situation

[Asker]

He’s also told her that our situation is bad and he’s trying to find a way out of it

[Opinion Owner]

O yeah he has one foot out the door and is being nice does he have a low sex drive now?

He has no feelings as he showed a situation. Not a relationship he is detached sadly!

Hate losers what made him so bored of 11 years!

[Asker]

He told her they are connected emotionally spiritually and sexually

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry he is just throwing 11 years out the window I so bet he said the same thing to you when dating

[Asker]

He was single when I met him

[DreamLife7]

Yes he loves her. He used u as a place holder because she wasn't available. He was with you for 11 years yet never married you. Why? Because you're not what he wants