Does he still have feelings for her?

[Bratz1211]

I was with my crush and he rewatched a story of this girl he had a thing with. The picture he double watched was her looking all sexy and she’s a pretty girl that he also had sex with. However they stopped speaking now for 2-3 months, he said it’s because she was supposedly dating and he just stopped speaking to her, as he was mad about that! He’s saying he wasn’t jealous, but how could he not be if he stopped speaking to her cause of that. She also said “ain’t we just friends.” And he ignored that text from her (I secretly read the text) They use to speak everyday before and hang out. He always watches her stuff online still and last night I caught him rewatch her story she posted on Snapchat of her with a bra and robe on (this was her private story) they’re both on each other private stories. Does he still like her? Please help me, I’m so paranoid!

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Guys he just re-watched her story again in front of me! Why does he keep doing this?

[ohsheeT]

Oh wow well he feels something if he's been doing that how deep the feels are only he knows I know for me personally when it's over it's over and I'm not going to go back and I'm not going to watch her on her social media because that means if I do that there's kind of a desire there I mean I could still be friends but I'm not going to watch her and her bra and whatever and especially if I have a new girlfriend I'm not even going to go to my ex's social media that's just disrespect for you that's all I think anyway at least that's my opinion I don't know everybody's different so

[Bratz1211]

Yeah, that’s what I’m thinking. Surly if u stop speaking to someone you don’t bother watching they’re story. But he’ll watch it all the time and even adds her to his private story. But he don’t message her. Unless it’s his ego getting in the way.

[hafinjun]

Good points

[Bratz1211]

So you think he still likes her but not texting?

[hafinjun]

Probably but hard to say

[ohsheeT]

I don't know because I don't know him and I don't want to give you any bad advice I just know guys and you know he's going there and he shouldn't be I mean he can do whatever he wants to do but if he's going out with you why isn't he just going out with you why does he have to involve an ex that's what I don't understand

[Bratz1211]

He’s just a crush and she isn’t his ex just a girl he use to see. I don’t know if it’s finished properly between then though! Because why would you still have their socials.

[ohsheeT]

That's something I guess you will ask him I mean why would he even go there when he with you I don't know maybe I just look at it different

[Bratz1211]

He just rewatched it again another thing she posted in front of me! It was a pic of her and something else.

[Frank1010]

I think it is disrespect but I also don’t think they should really even be friends on social media. And for him to be adding her to his own private stories is a bigger slap in the face then him looking at hers as far as I would think

[BigschlongEnergy]

So this Dude is A crush of yours and you’ve never sucked his Dick or anything right? And He’s Checking out some Girl he had a thing with and He’s never had a Thing with you just Talks to you
So He could be your friend and you Just think there’s more To it than friends which there isn’t Because you haven’t sucked his dick or fucked on the couch 🛋️ So He Doesn’t even know you like him and Somehow You think you own him
How does that make sense the man either likes you and fucks you or he doesn’t so which is it have you sucked his dick or done nothing sexually with him?

[Jen_27]

If he's single now he still would have a feeling for her. Cuz that all people do if their ex were not bad for them

[Wolfynight]

maybe girl, you might want to talk to him and tell him how you feel

[Bratz1211]

He won’t tell me. And ain’t even my man. But I don't know it’s just weird him doing this especially when they use to speak. What if he misses her or something

[Wolfynight]

oh, i get missing someone and being into them

[Bratz1211]

Do you think it’s both with him? But it’s weird how he hasn’t messaged her ever since then

[Wolfynight]

dude, is sending mixed signals,, if he really misses her and wants to see her, he'll talk to her, But maybe he's longing from a distance

[Bratz1211]

Or it might be a ego thing for him, as I know he was annoyed at her for that. But what do you u mean by longing?

[Wolfynight]

oh, yea guys do care about their ego's. i meant like he might miss her from a distance

[Bratz1211]

Yeah they really do! Would u say he’ll get back to her if she messaged him? Or ignore her?

[Wolfynight]

he might try and be casual about it if she messaged him

[Nsync]

I think he is definitely still doting on her and still likes her. You need to move on beyond him, this is not good for you. He will go to her the moment he has a chance and she seems to be playing him.

As for you, you will never really know and will always need to check on him. It is not healthy to be paranoid like this. A good relationship is built on trust and honesty. You do not have that here.

Do yourself a favour and move on and find someone who treasures you as you deserve to be.

I hope this helps.

[Bratz1211]

Do u think he’ll be happy if she messaged him again?

[Nsync]

Yes, I think he would.
Every situation is different but if he was not interested he would have moved beyond this already. I am more concerned about you, paranoia is not healthy.

[Havthrills]

Maybe? He said he stopped talking to her cause she was dating. Maybe he stopped cause she was sleeping with others? That would hurt him. His mind might be on "why would she do this to me?" Just distraction and good memories away from her will help.

[Bratz1211]

He watched it again! He clicked back to watch her picture she posted again.

[Havthrills]

Damn. He's hung up. He still has some feelings, but she probably hurt him deep or he did something he regrets. Did you ask him why he keeps watching it?

[Bratz1211]

Yeah he didn’t say anything. She posted another pic and he watched it within a minutes now lol I’m a fool. It’s funny how when he was speaking to her, he never posted himself going out and other girls but ever since they stopped speaking he’s posting himself going out every weekend with girls. Do u think he’s only doing it cause if her

[Havthrills]

Could be one of two things. He might be doing it to make her jealous. He could be doing it to show he's fine without her. Yet if he keeps watching her stuff, you might want to just ask him if he still has feelings for her. Hopefully he will explain.

[Bratz1211]

I’ve asked he didn’t say anything to me and told me he just does it to everyone lol

[Havthrills]

Lol. He should open up more to you. Don't get mad or anything, just let him know you're concerned. Also, keep being with him if you want to make memories for him with you. As long as he's trying with you too.

[Bratz1211]

Do you think he said the truth when he said he does it to everyone? It’s cause I only see he does it with her

[Havthrills]

I don't know. He might and maybe you're only focusing on her. But yet, he could be just saying that. Truth has to always be told on both sides no matter if it hurts or not. The truth is always better.

[Summeroflove]

Again. If you like him. Ask him out. If you get a yes or no or maybe so. Then there’s your answer.


Yes. It’s a date. No then move on. Maybe or another answer. The balls in his court. If he wants you he will reach out.

[RealMarek]

I don’t think he should be looking at pictures of his ex or having much to do with her. The only reason for that would be if he’s still into her.

[Bratz1211]

It’s not his ex, just someone he had something with. But they stopped speaking and he still watches her stuff. Especially yesterday when I saw him watch that story twice with her looking all good.

[RealMarek]

You should ask yourself whether you want to deal with this sort of behavior. If not, set a boundary or move on to a better man.

[Talldutchie]

Tell him you're not comfortable with them having contact. He'll have to respect this

[Bratz1211]

No they’re not in contact, he just watches her stuff and rewatches stories of her

[Bratz1211]

Just find it weird

[Talldutchie]

Ya, I see. Well if it's only that it's not the worst though

[Bratz1211]

Do u think he still likes her?

[Talldutchie]

Not the same way he likes you dear. Again, ask him to delete her if you don't like it. If he loves you he will

[Bratz1211]

His not my boyfriend just a crush so I don't know.

[hafinjun]

Just because your paranoid doesn't mean they aren't out to get you, what would he say if the roles were reversed. I'm not big on ultimatums but that's just wrong behavior in my book. His only private viewer should be you,

[Sparkie460]

If he keeps looking at her over and over again he still has feelings for her. If she messages him and asks him to come back I think he would jump at the opportunity.

[Bratz1211]

It’s not over again he just looked at her story again after once

[Sparkie460]

I think the flame wasn't fully extinguished

[Bratz1211]

What do u mean?

[Sparkie460]

He still has feelings for her

[Bratz1211]

How do u know that? Just cause he viewed it twice

[Sparkie460]

If he didn't have any feelings for her he would have deleted it when they broke up. Every time I broke up with someone I got rid of all the memories I had and moved on.

[Bratz1211]

Yeah so he left a door open for her basically. Yeah I understand you

[Sparkie460]

The only way to really move on is to get rid of all the memories from past relationships. Apparently he hasn't done that yet

[Bratz1211]

Then why do u think he hasn’t messaged her? It’s been 2 months, but he’ll always watch her stuff like yesterday I saw him watch that story of her twice.

[Sparkie460]

He's checking to see what she's up to. He still misses her

[Sparkie460]

He did it right in front of you

[Bratz1211]

I mean he just did it when I was there, he watched it one and then she posted something else not her pic. He then watched that one and watched the one of her picture again. But doesn’t say nothing to her! Why’s he even behaving like this

[Sparkie460]

Have you asked him about this? I think he still has feelings for her

[Bratz1211]

No I haven’t! But it’s just so weird! You don’t don’t do that to someone u don’t care about like wtf

[Sparkie460]

You should mention it to him. Like "why are you still looking at her stuff when you're with me"

[Bratz1211]

I did he didn’t say anything.

[Sparkie460]

So he's just blowing you off and avoiding the question

[Bratz1211]

Basically is! As a guy would you keep rewatching a girls story if u wasn’t interested?

[Bratz1211]

Be honest

[Sparkie460]

No I wouldn't.

[Sparkie460]

I think he's trying to see if she's going with someone or there's a chance he can get back with her

[Bratz1211]

Honestly Starting to think he wants her now. Cause it’s actually crazy

[Sparkie460]

How long have you been with him

[Bratz1211]

Why do think he isn’t messaging her then?

[Sparkie460]

He's keeping tabs on her. Maybe to see if she says she misses him or something like that

[Bratz1211]

So I’m just a rebound

[Sparkie460]

Have you been together long

[Bratz1211]

No just a few weeks well we’re just friends but I like him

[Sparkie460]

So you're not " an item "

[Sparkie460]

Apparently he doesn't like you as much as you like him

[Bratz1211]

No but we’re seeing each other. Also when he stopped speaking to her he posted more of himself going out and other girls, but when he was with her he never posted stuff like that. And me and him are friends I think

[Sparkie460]

He's trying to make her jealous

[Bratz1211]

I gathered that now! Wow I’m such an idiot. She posted a pic with her friends now and he watched it within a minute lol I’m a looser

[Bratz1211]

Surprisingly the idiot didn’t watch they twice.

[Bratz1211]

*that

[Sparkie460]

You're not an idiot.

[XXblack88]

Possibly why would you keep looking at their stories if you broke up with them. I personally would want nothing to do with someone I broke up with.

[athelete_7]

👀theyre in eachother private story no one lets them in their space unless they like them or want something in return.

[athelete_7]

Either it physical liking or emotional liking. I think both of them like eacjother physically emotionally the girl doesn't like. Not sure about the guy tho he could be detached too. But physically yes or else they won't be exhchanging pics.

[Bratz1211]

They’re not exchanging pics, it’s just the fact that he watched her story twice of her half naked! And he’s always watching her stuff but doesn’t contact her!

[athelete_7]

👀 umm i take it back then. He might be finding her hot so he veiwed her twice.

[Bratz1211]

Do you think he still likes her?

[athelete_7]

Tbh i also veiw pics twice. I guess he might be finding her hot so just took a look. Nope if he isn't doing or acting or talking then its all chill problem would be if he was talking or doing stuff. Its chil scene i guess

[athelete_7]

👀he finds her hot. Nah i dont think. Liking personality wise and body wise are 2 diff things.

[Bratz1211]

Then why does he always watch her stuff. I’m so confused

[Bratz1211]

And then when they stopped speaking he added her to his private story

[athelete_7]

👀 I don't know man its better u ask him. It also could be something else.

[athelete_7]

😅i dont wanna create a doubt i guess i am wrong person to say i feel

[Bratz1211]

It’s just weird. U wouldn’t look twice at someone u wasn’t interested in

[dustybiker]

Of course he still likes her. She is “an option” for a guy like him.

[TallAnon]

At the very least he thinks she's hot (and, let's be honest, she sounds hot), who knows if it's more. He stopped talking to her for a reason, so he'll probably remember that reason.

[Jamie05rhs]

What's a private story? Does that mean only certain people can see it?

[Bratz1211]

Yeah so she’s in his private story and he’s in hers. It’s a story only u select people who can watch it.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Bratz1211 Oh. Interesting. So how can you tell if someone's story is private or not? I mean if they're sharing it with you. How can you tell if other people can see it?

[Bratz1211]

You can’t tell. They just add you to they’re private story. I know they’ve added each other cause I saw it. No u can’t tell.

[Bratz1211]

But he adds her to his private as soon as they stop talking

[Jamie05rhs]

@Bratz1211 Oh. That's so weird.
You know what, that's another reason why I don't like SnapChat.

[Bratz1211]

Do you think he has feelings for her then?

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, I do.

[Twalli]

Probably. He never indicated he stopped liking her. He just cut off contact because she had a boyfriend

[justFriend]

If he really forgot, he shouldn't look... If he's still looking at erotic photos, he hasn't forgotten. :S

[loveslongnails]

Obviously he not only likes her, but he still wants her.

[FlaccidFish]

Yes based on what you said I think he does.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like he just used her for sex.

[Bratz1211]

How?

[Opinion Owner]

He only watches her stories because she puts whore videos about herself. He's still physical attracted to her because she's a slut. But he's not in love with her... it sounds like her just gets off to her

[Bratz1211]

It’s not whore vids it’s just pics of herself looking good.

[Opinion Owner]

You said she posted herself in a bra and robe 🤦‍♀️ the guy knows she's easy... so he's just waiting for her to call him sex

[Bratz1211]

Why doesn’t he just have sex with me then

[Opinion Owner]

Did you just call yourself easy?

[Bratz1211]

I mean I’d have sex with him. It’s not easy, it’s just having needs. So you’re saying all men are easy then?

[Opinion Owner]

Most men are easy.

The answer to your question is simple. He doesn't find you physically attractive. You're not pretty or sexy to him.

[Opinion Owner]

He doesn't think you're sexy. Get over it!

[Stevefiveo]

Yeah, he still hasn't got over her.

[In_Trance]

probably just wants to smash

[PeterLegg91]

Ofcourse he still does , sorry :(