He said I’d never be half the woman his ex was in an argument. Does he mean it?

[Anonymous]

[IveGotNoName]

First of all... If she was so much better, then why couldn't he keep her around, and leave you alone? He definitely seems to be the problem here. Having said that, he probably thought that it would be the most hurtful thing to say, and in the heat of that moment he did. It doesn't necessarily mean he feels that way at all. But it really is an awful thing to say.

[Asker]

He said he’s sorry and didn’t mean it but I can’t believe he would be so disgusting to even say it and also repeat it in a different context during the same argument saying he’d rather be with her I may forgive but I won’t forget. It’s funny as his ex is very nice to me, and she left him 6 years ago, they dated as 13-18 year olds. Ridiculous bringing that up.

[IveGotNoName]

Yea.. it is ridiculous I agree... forgiving and not forgetting in a relationship can very easily come back and become a problem though.

[whereismyjohnny]

He probably said it in the heat of the moment, but still, it's a very shitty thing to say to your partner.

[boggboss]

Means he must be a retard to be able to make that comment and stay with u

[noohair]

You are not the one if he said that. Move forward without him.

[AZandrea]

Why is he gaslighting you when his ex already left him for a better man?

[spartan55]

How many times on this question? Really?