Ok maybe you're an amazing accomplished tasteful educated rich guy. Even then is it ok to say Your last girlfriend was below your standard. She was young she was immature wore too much make up. When she saw a photo of us she contacted me and said he's really mean and angry and to be careful. But at that time his red flags didn't show up and he was wonderful love-bombing me and she actually seemed like a sketchy girl. She is but he's no better.
After marriage One day I left work early to meetmy sister. He freaked out and screamed and said if u don't come back now I'm gonna come and beat you all up. He's all empty threats. I went and filed a complaint against him as he threatened me many times. now he's begging me for forgiveness. I asked him u said you'd beat me up and whatever she said is coming true she also said u said you'd beat her father up.
He says in a sorry tone "she wasn't listening to what I'm saying that's why I said it" before he denied it now he's saying it's her fault. What kind of a person is he?
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It sounds like the person you're talking about has some serious issues with misogyny, anger management, and possibly even domestic violence. It's never okay to belittle or insult an ex-partner, especially if it's done in a way that's meant to make the current partner feel superior or more desirable. It's also not okay to make threats of physical violence or to actually follow through with them.
It's important that you take these red flags seriously and consider your safety. It's not uncommon for abusers to escalate their behavior over time, and it's important that you have a support system in place and consider seeking professional help or counseling. It's not your fault that he's behaving this way, and you deserve to be treated with love, respect, and kindness.