I've been in love with this guy for years, we're classmates. He gives signs to like me back, but other times he show signs that he doesn't. For example, when I was upset with him he (who's the argumentative type) gave up trying to justify himself and simply say he was sorry right away. He teases me a lot and does childish things to grab my attention, he asks me the oddest stuff, he doesn't deny or hesitates denying when his friends say he likes me, etc. But, he doesn't approach me if I don't approach him first, he doesn't say hi or bye to me, he never compliments me or the things I do even when I do it to him, if I'm not actively making an effort to talk to him he acts as if I don't exist. I feel foolish and don't know what to do.
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Honestly, when a guy is interested in you, he will make it VERY clear. If you are getting mixed signals, it's probably not a good sign. You mentioned how he doesn't approach you unless you do; it seems like you have to initiate majority of the conversations which shouldn't happen if he is really into you. I would say to pull back a bit and not focus on the situation too much. You shouldn't be putting in so much effort and energy into someone who doesn't seem like he's interested.
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You're infatuated with him. You don't love him. Tell him how you feel about him and he feels the same, great. If he doesn't, you'll find another guy.
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Make him chase you.
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