Does this mean he’s sleeping with someone else?

[Anonymous]

When you’re texting a guy and he can’t text you back one night or for a couple of days. He gives you a reason like he’s with his friends or something. Does this mean he’s sleeping with someone else?

The only reason I think this way is because my ex used to do that and I’ve realised a lot of girls have had that kind of experience.

Am I looking into it too much or is that the case?

[glennos89]

If it happens 1 night when he is with his friends then I can understand that he doesn't wanna be the guy that is texting all night long. But if he doesn't reply for several days I would be concerned if I where you because definitely something is going on then

[Asker]

I kinda have trust issues. My ex used to reply randomly at night or very early in the morning (probably while the woman he was sleeping with was fast asleep). It’s weird to me that a man will be sleeping with another woman but will remember to text me at night and in the mornings lol. How do I overcome that...

[glennos89]

Some people are just very good in hiding their secrets. But that also tells a lot about those persons... I wouldn't even wanna try to live such a double life because you have to think every step of the day through and avoid making mistakes. Kinda sickening of you ask me🤢🤮

I understand your thrust issues but I can't give you the solution for it unfortunately. The only thing I do know is that you will have to find a way to put that a side in your next relationship otherwise it's doomed to fail from the start. Thrust in eachother is vital for any relationship. Every person is different so just try to let go of the things your ex did behind your back and don't project them on your new relationship and give your new guy just a honest chance to show him his dedication and honesty towards you. But ofcourse that's easier sad then done 🙈

[Asker]

Thank you! I appreciate your comment

[andreasderjuengere]

I see two possible reasons.
You already figured out #1
The other one could be that he's throttling you off - a preparation for finishing with you.

Also - There ARE certain circumstances when 'we' can't be online for a stretch of days
- we could sail around the world
- we could hike in Antarctica
- police has locked me away
- I'm stuck in my gold mine
- aliens have 'abducted' me
etc.

[bowenw]

If a guy is into you he will get back to you right away unless he works in a job where that is not always possible, like a fire fighter. I would keep an close eye on him.

[Wise4myage]

He very well could be, but you need more proof.

[Adam-94]

Yes maybe