Guys, do you like it if a girl initiates contact or will you think she's needy?

[Anonymous]

I hate saying this because it makes me sound arrogant, but I was blessed in the looks department and I can attract men easily and I'm aware of it.

Lately I've been talking to this guy, when I talk to him he sounds like he's desperately in love with me, but he never initiates contact. I feel a connection with him and I don't mind intiating contact, but in all honesty I don't know how guys respond to this. Will he be like ''omg I'm so lucky, a beautiful woman is making an effort to initiate contact every time'' or will he be like ''nah she's too predictable, she ain't worth it.''

You know, as a woman sometimes our logic is more complex, sometimes we can lust after a man we can't have (you know, maybe he's married or just not interested) and lose interest when he starts pursuing us, but I'm not really sure what goes through the mind of a guy.
So basically in short the question is: if an attractive woman pursues you and initiates contact, will you be happy or will you think she's too easy?

I realize that calling yourself attractive makes you sound too full of yourself, I normally don't do that in real life, it's just that I want genuine advice.

[MrCommodore]

I don't mind a woman initiating contact with me, in fact it is often better this way.

However I don't feel lucky or anything, because there are a few female friends/colleagues who regularly initiate contact with me.

In fact they initiate 80-90% of messages and are all attractive women, so attractiveness or the fact a woman is initiating doesn't mean she is interested romantically or that I'm lucky.

[Asker]

''and are all attractive women'' sorry, I guess they probably are not.. unless you live in some city where being hot is a requirement to reside lol. When I say attractive, I mean Taylor Swift kind of attractive or something like that, not just fuckable or decent. Thanks for the answer though.

[MrCommodore]

I would rate two of them as hotter that Taylor Swift, although she isn't exactly stunning.

[Asker]

oh well, that's surprising. Taylor Swift is at least an 8, objectively.. most of the time, when men say a woman is hot, they just mean she's okay and cute enough to sleep with, they don't really mean 'hot''.

[Guy13]

Beautiful women can be intimidating unless you have met a model/beautiful man. It’s hard for a good-looking man to find a woman who is not insecure about guy being better looking.
-He might be intimidated. He probably doesn’t see his Value

[Guy13]

You are going to have to add Cslue to him. If he’s nerdy then complement Nerdness…. whatever his strengths are complement them as “attractive”. “This is why I’m attracted to you”…”why are you shocked or hesitant”. LET HIM BE A MAN. Build him up into asking you out 💪

[kinggeorge007]

It depends on the girl and the way she contacts me. I personally like when girls initiate it. Obviously, I don't get attracted to every one of them. Coz I'm human too.

[Echosoul]

Absolutely! The more attractive the woman is the more 'out of my league' I'd assume she is so I'd not want to bother her.

[spartan55]

So it's okay for guy to be needy?