Boyfriend and his babymother?

[Anonymous]

I have never met my boyfriends daughter until yesterday he told me a few months ago he didn’t want to introduce us yet because she’s young and him and his babymother talked about not having anyone else around there child I just met my boyfriends daughter Yesterday today he’s asking me to be quiet when his babymother FaceTimes there daughter because he didn’t tell her there child was going to be around me I thought he had a conversation with her about there child being around me I told him he should go to his car and I’m not being quiet in my own home and he got mad is that weird? Should I break up with him?

[Anonymous]

Honestly yes. I understand at times people who have children fall into situations that may not be their fault leaving them to be a single parent. But there are also those who are responsible for what happened. It’s a very hard thing to be a step parent. I think you’re very young to have this kind of pressure on you w trying to figure out life, work, your relationship ship, etc. I never introduced my son to my girlfriend till about a year into our relationship 12 years ago. She had a child as well. But I think one he introduced you to her way too early. Two, I’m pretty sure he hasn’t mentioned to his ex that his daughter is around you. Three if that’s your home no one should tell you to be quite in your own home. I think you should move on, find someone preferably w no kids unless you’re willing to put up w it. If the child’s mother or father passed away that may not be so bad. But if they’re still around trust me it can be hell at times. Will you be allowed to discipline if it calls for it? If so what is you’re idea of discipline compared to theirs. Holidays! Who gets the child during these days? Who pays for what? There’s a lot consider when it comes to being a stepparent.

[Anonymous]

He sounds immature. I'd demand he tell the baby mom about you and that you've met the daughter. Obviously they are still together or fucking. Because why can't you meet her?